Why is he doing this?

@ellie96

Be interesting. What makes you different? Over the course of your weight loss did you become a fitness enthusiast? Any man with an ounce of game will not talk about themselves. They will question you on your interest, your career, what you are studying, etc… Physically what makes a girl hot in my opinion is being in shape. I love working out, So whenever I see a slender, not too skinny, woman with an athletic body I am automatically turned on. But I am aware that females come in many varieties. Beauty has no shape or form. Therefore when you see it you must respect it. What are some physical attributes that your friends may compliment you on or even be jealous of? Use those to your advantage and prime them. But don’t only focus on your best attributes; because what if a man isn’t interested in that?

Mold yourself into an all around female. Begin to dress and do things like a woman! Throw away those Ugg boots that you may wear everyday and wear what is appropriate. Stop wearing leggings when you go out and wear a dress. And in my opinion, the only make up woman should use is eye liner. Instead of clogging your face up for an hour trying to impress another man who spent no more than 10 to 20 minutes preparing to meet a woman, make your beauty look effortless.

I will end this comment by giving you a reflection of what ‘i have physically changed about myself. I stopped dressing to impress the male species, and are started dressing to attract people as a whole. I stopped dressing like a boy and started presenting myself as a man. I no longer wear sneakers unless I am going to the gym. I also don’t wear t-shirts in public. I always wear wear button-ups, sweaters, and knitted coats. Boys these days fail to realize that dressing athletic does not impress women, it impresses other boys. And as a man, I am not impressed when I see a boy above the age of 18 in public wearing sneakers, jeans, and a hoodie. The only females that go for these boys are the ones who cheat, are looking to hook up, or have no self esteem. Women who are looking for relationships chase men.

@ellie96

Subject: Personality

Many females don’t realize this but acting like a female dog or pushing guys away as is if they are better is not attractive. In fact if you could recall a time where you led a guy on, you were probably extremely nice and outgoing. That’s what guys like. Smile as much as possible, be genuine, and spread energy. Guys are extremely attracted to women that want to be attractive. Meaning that if you are a welcoming person you will get more attention. Now, this does not mean go out of your way and talk to every guy. But when a man whom has potential approaches him do not shun him. Be open and he will fall right in.

@TJ wow so true! I have been looking around to see if there might be any guy that is as good as him (he is a man, dresses properly and all) and whenever I see a guy in hoodies and stuff I am just “nah” right away. Quality guys are rare, really…