Why is he doing this?

I think he already realised his mistake that he dis wrong and pushed you away to the point you dont wanna go back to him!!

Good for him he realised that.
He knows for sure that you dont wanna talk to him.
Take your time and heal yourself from the pain and shock he gave you!
Has he sent any apology texts?

You are doing great not talking to him. He deserves this. My ex also hurt me alot but he isn’t calling me everyday and never apologized to me.

He’s doing it because he realizes what is missing in his life! He realized that he may have actually lost you and you are not there for him! It’s good because the way it sounds he needs to realize it! He needs to treat you better because every girl deserves to be treated right! Every girl should be treated like a queen! It’s good that you are sticking to it! A lot of people want to give up or give in but I’m glad to see somebody so confident in a situation like this! It gives me hope as well! Keep it up and I guarantee you he will change a ton and treat you way better in the end!

its just a defense mechanism and he wants to make you mad and jealous

because its all a tactic. its stuck in his head. you may hate me for this but guys tend to show their emotion more and fight for something more when theres a break up more than a girl

@ellie96

I read your story and you are doing absolutely awesome. the only thing I could tell you to change is to be less spiteful. Unblock his number and unblock him on social networks. Allow him to continue to call you. But this doesn’t mean answer. This also does not mean use him to boost your ego. I can tell that your experience with non contact was more so directed at him and not so much for your benefit. Right now I am only about 3 days into no contact and my ex has used every excuse to try and get into contact with me. But I will not give her the benefit of having multiple significant others in her life, nor will I boost her ego by giving her attention.

You should continue no contact, but this time you should completely cut out any mutual friends and family friends that you and him share. You should also refrain from putting anything on social media and stay as low key as possible. He will begin to go insane because he will not know what you have been up to, what you look like at the moment, and how you feel towards him/ any other man.

And lastly. I want you to focus on yourself. Just by reading this I can tell you deserve a great man in your life, because loyal women are almost non- existent these days. You also know you have value, you just don’t know how great your value is. During this no contact focus on your health (fitness, mental awareness of what you want, and hygiene), your financial stand point (if you don’t have a car then buy one and get a well paying job), and most importantly start dating. Sadly to say, regardless of him calling you religiously I am almost 100 percent positive that he is going out with other females in attempts to fill your void. Start allowing men who you feel actually deserve you to prove that they can make you happy and that not all men are the same.

Trust me. As a young man I’m one of the few of my peers who value love and believe that one strong couple can’t take on the world. So men who believe in love are not extinct. Find your happiness young woman.

@ellie96

Okay. Once you cut off communication with him, completely, I want you to do at least one thing in your life that he will be aware of; then I want you to accomplish something that means something to yourself. One thing that may mean something to you is your body. As a woman , although I may not live it, but I know the insecurities you may feel about your body. Regardless of if you’re as skinny as a toothpick or have the nicest bosom/rear (excuse me). Do something that will boost your confidence and make you feel as if you deserve someone better. Guys who aren’t just physically attractive, but have something to offer.

Now; this period of NC can last anywhere between 21 days to how many it takes you to better yourself. The reason for this is because you won’t be chasing this guy who is trying to have females on the side as her remains in contact with you; you will have him chasing you. Why? because he hasn’t heard from you, hasn’t seen you, and most importantly he doesn’t know how good you’re doing. Every ex’s fear isn’t only that their ex-significant other has moved on, but is that person doing better. Rather it be with somebody or on your own. And their is nothing more attractive than a female who does not need a man or is able to support herself while keeping her self esteem high. But don’t become a you know what (female dog). Excuse me for my language but that will only push other guys away.