Vk NC

Firstly, yes you need to black her on all social media, it may be hard to do. But right now she has all the power in the relationship because she an just unblock you wherever she wants to chat. With that power you are giving her the okay to use you as a back up.

Secondly, NC has the chance to change a lot of things. But, NC isn’t used as a magical solution to bring back an ex. Its used to improve your own state on mind and to help improve yourself first! Pain needs time to heal and no matter how long you think the NC should be, you need to go into some form of NC in order to think about what you want out of the relationship. With the time it is important that you do not sit around and sulk about her because doing that will not bring her back to you. Instead, go out and do everything you’ve wanted to do. Read, write, explore. Take the time to improve yourself.

The NC period will work no matter what the outcome. Because whether she comes back or not, after the NC is over you have improved yourself for the better! You might even realize you did not need her after all.

You should also know that once the NC is over you cant simply jump right back into the relationship you need to start all the way back to square one.. fresh. If you try to jump right back into things you will crash just as hard as the first time because you need to be able to build trust again with each other so starting fresh is usually he only way reconciliation works out.

Trust all of us on this forum that we have been where you have been and we want things to work out for you.

The NC period is going to be so hard. Believe me i’ve never made it over a week. That’s great that you have made it 6 days!!keep holding out! It will get better with time. Unless you have a good reason to contact her don’t do it. give her the time she needs. Its will be healthy for you both. Do you not have each others actual numbers? How is fb the only way you guys talk?

If she has your number she can get in contact with you. Did she know when you were coming back originally? If so, she probably knows your back. What would you say to her if you did talk to her?

So, if she hasn’t contacted you, hasn’t unblocked you, and told you to move on why do you want to contact her? Obsessing over her and bombarding her with constant talking is going to make things worse and make her push you away more. You need to listen to her when she says she needs space. Shes with a new guy, most likely a rebound but you need to let her figure that out herself.

Take time to try and focus on more positive things. Its really hard right now. But think that you already got through a week without her, you can make it!

Wait, you guys were married?

Ok I understand the situation. I still don’t think its a good idea to contact her. but ultimately its up to you. what are you going to say and what do you want the outcome to be?