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September 28, 2014 at 2:17 pm #9126
CreeD
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Thanks for your relpy man 🙂
Yes I am taking this text as a signof interrest. Now I bet she is wondering why sshe cant get a conversation started with me 🙂
September 29, 2014 at 12:59 am #9155
CreeD
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She didn´t text me anymore yesterday. I hope I am on her mind 🙂

Either she is wondering what the heck is going on (good sign for me)
Or she doesn´t think about it, and that would mean she never had any feelings for me.

What to do after NC?
When my NC is over and we start talking again how should I reply when she asks why I never replied to her texts?

a) “you said you needed to be yourself, so I gave you the space you needed. And to be honest I kinda needed some space as well to move on”

b) “Sorry, I just have so much going on right now, I completely forgot about it. How are you?”

Ofcause with a cheerful and happy attitude 🙂
September 29, 2014 at 2:18 pm #9203
CreeD
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Anyone???
October 2, 2014 at 1:24 am #9406
CreeD
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Update from me
I just tried to make an update on facebook again. This time regarding something that is soon gonna happend in my life (not gonna get into details her)
I KNOW it is something that interrests her, and that she would wanna ask about it. But she didn´t text me. Guess she took the hint when I did not reply the last 2 times. But at least I was on her mind, and that was the point of it 🙂
She needs to see these amazing things that is happening.

Week 3
I am now going into week 3, and as I can read around the web week 3 is where she would start missing me the most?
She is also coming to town after week 3 for a short vacation. I am very excited as to what is gonna happend. Will we bumb into eachother? Will she write me and ask to see me?
October 2, 2014 at 10:21 am #9438
CreeD
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Yay she texted me 🙂
I made another Facebook update about this thing I mentioned before. (Yes I use facebook a lot, but this time I was not trying to get her attention with it)
She texted me “wow that sounds really exciting”

I guess the keyword here would be “exciting”… I am no longer her borring ex.
Keep up the NC, right???
October 2, 2014 at 11:23 am #9444
divjun
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Hey creed.. yes keep up the NC. You’re doing really great. Let her think why aren’t you replying.
And hey I too started second round of NC and I would really appreciate if you go through my thread and give your views on it. 🙂
October 3, 2014 at 5:17 am #9553
CreeD
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Thanks a lot for your feedback. Will look at it this weekend 🙂
October 4, 2014 at 6:14 am #9669
CreeD
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Yes! She reached out again today. Out of the blue there was a text “Hi, how are you doing?”

Again: I think the NC is working on her. I am in day 17, and haven´t felt better.

Thanks to those who read this and comment on this topic. It is a great “therapy” to have others to talk to. I will read your stories tomorrow and give my feedback as well…
October 4, 2014 at 11:01 am #9701
Nick
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Doing perfect keep it up!

“Hi, how are you doing?” perfect! she misses you I feel.
October 4, 2014 at 11:34 am #9709
Laurais13
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When I read stories like yours I feel so damn proud!! She is going crazy over there. Keep it up boy, you are on the right path, please let me know how it goes!!
October 6, 2014 at 12:34 am #9982
TravelBug
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Will you wait 30 days before you reply?

I broke nc and not sure if I should have.

Hope things are good at your end.
October 6, 2014 at 2:43 am #9993
CreeD
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I havent really decided yet. I am now on day 19. On day 23 she is coning to town for the weekend.
She made sure to post this on her Facebook wall, and she mentioned her plans for the weekend as well. She mentioned she was going to visit a place where she KNOWS I will be. Dont know if she is trying to send a hint for me to ask her out?

Anyways. I am sure when we get closer to the weekend she might text again to see if I have time for coffee. I havent decided yet if I am gonna reply to it. After all: she didnt reply to my invite 3 weeks ago
October 7, 2014 at 7:49 am #10162
CreeD
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Oh man I am nervous about this weekend. So far I have been feeling great during this NC. I have felt like I was in control and she was the one who finally started feeling something.

But I dont know what will happend this weekend, and how I should play it? Can anyone who knows about this part of “get your ex back” please give me some suggestions?

I dont know if she will try to make contact and ask to see me, or if we will just bumb into eachother. Will she be cold as ice and just say hello/goodbye, or will she throw herself at me and say she misses me? I dont know to be honest, and I dont know how to react to it… I dont want to screw this up….
October 7, 2014 at 11:10 pm #10347
CreeD
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Anyone??
Kinda need some feedback/support here…
October 7, 2014 at 11:26 pm #10349
Hamuel
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I’m in a similar situation to being “friends” with an “ex” and it took me 2 weeks to realise it’s not the best idea without giving them serious space first! I feel that I can give better advice to someone else than myself, I’m on my first day of NC and I already feel sad.
Anyway, stick with it. Improve yourself, let her (in a months time) see how well you’re doing without her.

Good luck. 🙂
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