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  • #64654
    patricia12
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    Hi Samuel, I’ve heard that too, that the first meet up should be casual.
    Okay that sounds like a good plan. And I hope she has a nice birthday:)
    Keep us posted..

    #64678
    samuel
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    I will she was in bed yesterday by 11.. Really hope she has plans tonight and if not accepts me to let me celebrate her b day with her

    #64686
    samuel
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    Well i dont know how to act she hasnt answered my txt yet…

    #64699
    patricia12
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    I don’t know where you are or what time it is now, but I’m in the United States and it’s early afternoon. Since you already sent the text, wait for the reply. Don’t send another one! She might be very busy celebrating her birthday today. If she agrees to go out with you on Tuesday or Wednesday, you can have a sweet belated birthday dinner or something.. Be patient and wait for a reply..

    #64704
    samuel
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    I sent her a msg threw fb she told me to re send my txt it probably didnt get in so i did and shell be talking to me after wrk

    #64717
    patricia12
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    Okay, have a nice talk and a great time when you see each other!

    #64734
    samuel
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    Well i dont know if that will happen (seeing her) i had a simple talk asked if she had plans she said yes, positive convo, i asked if she wanted to go wall climbing without proposing a certain day she didnt answer maybe forgot to answer she does that alot.. Ill wait for tomorow.

    #64751
    samuel
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    Well there you have it its 1h40 pm still no answer..

    #64755
    patricia12
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    You must be on the east coast. It’s 11 AM here. In your birthday text, didn’t you ask her about going out on Tuesday or Wednesday? Maybe she’s at work right now.

    #64757
    samuel
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    So i sent a message “i guess its a no then, okay farewell” she said “i dont believe we should meet up nust yet” i said “there is no perfect timing” she replied “still believe we should wait” i said “i have important questions to ask and i met you verry quickly why cant i get the same treatment?”

    Maybe shes seeing someone..

    #64758
    samuel
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    The haply b day text was “ill use this time away from the cameras to wish you a happy birthday!:)” then later i asked once she replied “still up to go wall climbing?”

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    samuel
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    @patrcia12

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    samuel
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    #64765
    patricia12
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    You seem to use the wrong words with her. Why didn’t you just wish her a happy birthday? You didn’t have to say “I’ll use this time away from the cameras..” That seems like a jab that you knew you wouldn’t be there with her to celebrate and take pictures. Totally unnecessary to have said that!

    Then you send a message “I guess it’s a no then, okay farewell”. She said to wait to meet up and you said something about important questions to ask etc.. Good grief, stop hounding her! She already knows you want to see her, so you need to be much more patient!

    Maybe she’s seeing someone and maybe not. But if you continue to nag and pester her, she might want to see someone else that doesn’t do these things. Sorry, but you sound way too desperate. Do you have a job or other things to fill your time so you’re not obsessing about her? Curious as to what questions you wanted to ask, but I’m sure it’s not urgent. So calm down..

    #64799
    samuel
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    Nah look i have a job and work out often and see my friends all the time, i dont obsess over her and that text was sent from work where she knows that im always being looked at by cameras hence that sentence where i hid to send her that txt.. Now ill say that i dont want her back anymore i thought it threw and i believe she isnt right for me she always talks to a bunch of guys and flirts its not my thing.. And i say its urgent cuz i want to get closure and move on quick instead of linguring.

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