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  • October 5, 2014 at 2:15 pm #9929
    adam23
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    Hey 🙂

    Were on speaking terms, not had a bad word.

    She might know about the new girl but we arnt in a relationship, I don’t want to rush as I wouldn’t be 100% into at the moment.

    October 5, 2014 at 2:17 pm #9930
    Melanie
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    I totally get where you’re coming from.
    What does your feeling tell you about letting her know that you can’t forget her? How long have you been broken up?

    October 5, 2014 at 5:19 pm #9956
    adam23
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    We’ve been broken up about two months. I’m not sure how she would react, my plan is to go for coffee, be all confident and happy and a few days later let her know how I feel

    October 6, 2014 at 12:36 pm #10052
    Melanie
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    Did you already contact her and ask her out for coffee? Do you think she’ll meet up with you? I know it’s hard to talk about your feelings but I think you need to see how you connect when you meet up and then go from there. I’m thinking about asking my ex out for coffee as well but have mixed feelings about it :-S

    October 6, 2014 at 12:43 pm #10057
    adam23
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    Yep, spoke to her last week via Facebook messager, she said if I’d like to yes we could go for a coffee. I’ve left her alone for about 1 month so will see what happens. As long as your happy in yourself you should go for it, i now know i don’t need her to be happy, I’m happy now with the changes I’ve made, if it’s not ment to be it won’t happen.

    October 9, 2014 at 12:59 pm #10626
    Melanie
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    It’s great to hear that you’re on good terms. 🙂
    Also I’m happy your feeling so comfortable and happy with yourself. But do you never get the feeling that eventhoug your happy with the changes you made your life would be better with her in it? Do you not have the feeling to fight for her and the wanting her as your girlfriend again?

    October 9, 2014 at 1:06 pm #10628
    aamls
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    @adam23 your doing great and know what your doing. 🙂 hopefully she misses you and you can go from there.:-) good luck and keep us updated. when is your date? @melanie stay strong, if you feel like you need to ask him out then do so and then you know how to go from there depending on how he answers you. 🙂 could you both read my posting and give me your opinions? thanks 🙂 you both are doing really good. keep it up. 🙂

    October 9, 2014 at 4:44 pm #10647
    adam23
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    Unfortunately I left it to her to contact me to arrange a meet up which she hasn’t done, I would give anything to have her back, but the key is be happy in yourself, make yourself happy or you can’t make anyone else happy, plus happiness is attractive, I’ve re taught myself how to chat to girls, I now find this fun and have no problems meeting people, I’m going to try one more time to sort a meeting out then I going to move on :).

    October 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm #10703
    aamls
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    I see. I understand how you feel as I feel the same way about my husband. I like the way you think. keep doing what your doing because regardless you are improving yourself which is a good thing. sounds like you have a good plan. 🙂 good luck and keep us posted. 🙂

    October 11, 2014 at 5:15 am #10995
    Melanie
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    I can realte so good to you guys. Adam do you really think you’ll be able to move on after meeting up with her for coffee? or what is your game plaan to get back with her?

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