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I had a dream last night we got back together and were hugging and being happy together again… Then I woke up and couldn’t get back to sleep for 2 hours:(
do you know what sucks? that despite all the stupid crap, i love the guy .. the guy he was before everything went down. and in the last two weeks have had six.. six dudes throw themselves at me, So i know i am worthy. what is it about this one dude that made me all wonky eyed?
Hey octopus2016,
How are you holding up? I was checking to see how’s your situation going.
I do notice you are switching to the “anger phase” post breakup, which is totally normal.
Let me tell you that the sooner you let go of your negative feelings, the sooner you start feeling relieved and better.
Unfortunately no one has a correct answer to your last question, I can tell you though that there is only one or a few people we meet who leave an unforgettable mark in our lives.
Of course you are worthy, everybody is worthy of love and respect. I have turned down multiple dates as well in these past two months but I don’t regret it at all, I am not emotionally available. Be strong and release all your bad vibes, this moment will pass and there are good chances that he will come around again.Thank you for checking in. I am doing ok… I know I have to let go because my brain tells me to pursue the relationship is a horrible idea. I have been working pretty hard on realizing again that I am a good person. Sure, I have issues but I am willing to recognize them and work on them. I think the other half in this equation is not as willing. So I am doing my best to forget about him and just work in me. Not so easy some days, but I am getting there.
The important part for me to remember is that his lack of remorse and disregard for my feelings are not a reflection on my character.
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