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Well all I did was add a ex girlfriend on Facebook and I hungout and got drunk with my old friends that she thinks is trouble last night
Guys honestly it’s not as hopeless as you sound but the ironic part is acting like its so hopeless is killing your chances. Girls NEVER like negative people you gotta put a big confident smile on your face and keep it there no matter how fake it is at first. Go out more, work out, pick up a hobby, whatever you need to do to get some confidence but damn you can’t sit there and feel bad about yourself. We have all been there it does so much more harm than good.
Oh I know trust me I’m doing very well and I’m so much happier but whenever I think about her that’s when it hits me which only occurs at night and such. Other then that I’m always smiling posting so many happy pictures on my social medias and even going out a lot.
It takes time man if you are doing all that then you will get there eventually, but good keep going out. Go on a few dates and while I hate to sound like I’m saying go move on don’t treat other girls or dates as just a means to get back with your ex, if they are nice enough girls you should give them as much a chance as they deserve. But overall that’s good that you feel better, a positive mind frame is key just keep looking forward. If you ever are feeling down come here and use the boards, that’s usually what I am prone to do if I’m having a rough day.
its crazy how we literally have to see each other everyday and we live right infront of each other, there has to be some feelings for me there in her
Will you get your exes back? I dont know. But you have as much of a chance as the rest of us. But sitting around wondering about it, thinkin about why they do this and that wont do you any good.
This is the hardest task of all, but you need to get them out of your head. They are not you ex, they are just another person, and that is how you should treath them.
You have to move on so you can get back on track.Has there been a case in which the dumpee moved on quick? I really want to move on but the feelings are just there and it’s hard to get them out.
Well. Dumpee is you. And yes, some dumpee are able to move on very fast.
Some dumpers are also able to move very fastWhy do I feel like this is so hard? This sucks! I feel as if I’ll never get her back and she really moved on… I love her so much but I feel as if she doesn’t love me anymore..
She doesn’t love you. Not the way you want her to.
But she did when you were together. And she can get the feelings back! You just need to get out of her life for a while, in order to get them back. And spend the time away from her wisely.And try to understand that at this very moment she is NOT in love with you. In fact she might not even give you any thoughts what so ever.
That is also the reason why the stage you are in right now is the hardest of all.
This picture actually explains it very well. You just need to:
Change the word “Men” to Dumper (you ex)
Change the word “Woman” to dumpee (you)
Forget about the timeline
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