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so now idk if i might be seeing things or something but i dont see my ex anymore with this kid. i might be wrong but i havent seen them together and she seems more quiet now but still talks to a few guy friends along the way. My friend came up to me saying that she asked him to buy alchol since he’s 21. But remind you, she does not talk to him whatsoever and hes my boy.
I wouldn’t read too much into it yet, it could be nothing. Just proceed as if nothing happened because for all you know nothing DID happen.
So one of my friends told me today that my ex and one of her friends were talking and her friend said if me and her are really over and completely done, & she said yes it is over. It’s been 2 months now & I think she moved on already.
Normally I try not to read too deeply into it, my logic being take them at their word and if things change they will show it. In this case though I wouldn’t trust her word. What does it accomplish saying that she is still hung up on you? Absolutely nothing, she is most likely lying to avoid looking like an idiot or a needy ex. I repeat the same advice as before, proceed as if nothing has changed.
Idk what to feel tbh like idk if everyday it’s getting easier or if everyday I just feel the same and I’ll have to wait til a long time to get over her already. I want to forget about her so bad but it’s just the feelings and memories hit me so hard everytime. I hate what she’s done to me and she hates what I done to her, but i don’t want this to be the last thing we did which is leaving in a bad manner. I wouldn’t want her to rethink later and say this kid was such a waste of time.
Yes she is over you. And she means it. And she is moveing on.
You should do the same. That is what “get your ex back” is all about. Both of you need to get away from each other and live your own life and experience the world. And YOU need to improve and become better boyfriend material.
As time passes you will both start to forget about each other. Or… You will start to forget about the negatives that you didnt like about eachother. And as you get you heart broken again and again by new dates, you will also start to remeber all the good things about eachother.
That is when reconciliation MAY be possible. But dont expect anything to happend in 2 monthsMy ex called me after five days today and first she sent me a text lastnight and said she hated me and then today she called and asked how I was doing and everything which I found weird! What do you guys think?
But is it likely that she would eventually contact me? I begged and even send her flowers & even went to the hosptial for her. Isn’t she gona realize that sooner or later ?
@Mikeyx3 I think it might be a good idea if you read the plan again. Begging, sending flowers etc are not the right things to do. Neither is putting yourself in hospital…
I think @creeD is right, you must start the moving on process in order to actually find some inner peace and come to terms with the fact that getting back together may not happen. I am doing that myself at the moment, and it is hard but it is for the best!
Oh no I didn’t recently do that, that was 2 months ago when she broke up with me so now I’m on 2 months of nc. I wouldn’t mind being friends atleast to slowly be together again but I don’t want to text her either or contact first because it’ll seem to needy or something. Before she usually contacted me. This time is different I guess.
Maybe she will contact you maybe she won’t, no one can predict. The girl I dated for 3 months has tried to contact me multiple times and is still very upset about the whole situation while the girl I dated for almost 3 years is much less emotional, it’s not possible to gauge exactly what they will do you can only take your best guess.
That being said, you still would benefit from going out and continuing to move on, you’re still too invested in it. She doesn’t owe you anything and you shouldn’t be waiting around for her to try and talk to you.
The girl you dated for 3 years is she contacting you or made any contact with you whatsoever?
You say you would be ok with being friends, and slowly get back together again.
Sorry my friend but those are two very different things, and you can’t have both. Either you are friends with her with all it takes (you have to hear about new guys she sleeps with, and how good he is ect) or you go NC with a chance of getting her back (and a chance of loosing her)
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