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Thank you so much !
I’ve noticed that every passing day it gets easier and im happy, but I always see them kissing like a perfect couple and him giving her his sweater, is there any chance he can be the one for her? All the signs point to HES the one , especially since she already posted him on her tumblr with them having cute text messages such as ” I want to sleep on your chest and forget about my problems” and she says how she loves that about him. She uses tumblr like if it’s her life so I’m pretty sure he can be the one.I mean yeah I feel the same way! These two hangout everyday and everything but instead she hides it from me! But trust me they are just rebounds to fill the hole we left on them! She maybe happy right now but she will realize what she really wants! Just give it time man! It sucks I know it does cause I’m in the same situation but you gotta be strong!
In about 3 months or so the honeymoon stage of her relationship is going to fade (guaranteed, it happends in ALL relationships)
She will the question if this is the right relationship for her. She will look at you and compare her new guy to you.
This I can gurantee you!What is going to happen after that is up to you my friend.
Do you want to improve so much, and become better boyfriend material, so that she cant stay away and want you back?
Or do you want her to think “Oh shit, I really made the right choice here“The reason I am saying this is because it seems to me like all your energy is being focused on her and her new guy.
Foget about it. Use ALL your energy on YOU! Become the best boyfriend in the world! Every action from now on in your life, should be steps towards making you a better person. THAT is the key to getting them back, the NC is not the thing that brings them back.Agree with CreeD 100%, women love confidence and independence and if you work on yourself then both of those will improve. Plus if after all the work you decide you do not want her back, which does happen, you will be in a great position to find a new girl. But obsessing over her and her new bf does more harm than good, trust me it will drive you crazy.
I’ve read multiple articles saying that often times there rebound relationships turn out into a very serious relationship, can’t this happen in my scenery? I really can’t stress it enough how much we fought like it was just a daily thing we did. And the last time was extremely serious and I even apologized and said that I owned up to it but claims I treated her like shit. I’m actually doing good tbh but that fight is always in the back of my head
Ofcause it can. That would be scenario number 2 in my last post.
Here it is again:Do you want to improve so much, and become better boyfriend material, so that she cant stay away and want you back?
Or do you want her to think “Oh shit, I really made the right choice here“She WILL start to compare him to you sooner or later. Who is going to win?
So far he has the upper hand because of the fighting between you and your ex.You better start acting. And the sooner you act the better.
Please tell me what you have done so far to become a better and more interresting guy (and boyfriend)ive been hitting the weight room, which means i gained more muscle, in my high school’s track time, reading books which i dont normally do, taking therapy, be more nicer to people around me. So far thats what ive done but it doesn’t seem like she sees it and i know it.
She might see it already, you dont know. 🙂
Remember: our ex’s wont tell us anything and will do what they can to hide their feelings… We just have to guess… But trust me… In the long run it will only benefit you to improve.
How about your looks? This is a very easy way to imrove. Some new clothes, teeth whitening, new hairatyle ectMy ex texted me and said “Lol I feel it shelden,I can’t believe you did that. I will never speak a word to you again. ” and I never even did anything! And she finally unblocked me today! Also she said ” I’m sorry I just have to make myself happy” I think im screwed man:/
She broke up, she found a new guy. At this moment she should just go on with her life and never give you any thoughts at all.
But that isnt happening. You are clearly still on her mind… She cant seem to let you go. Maybe you didnt do anything, but she is just overanalyzing something very small.
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