Boards Reconciliation Extremely confused, and just wanting my relationship back

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    Confused_Girl
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    He seems to be trying to talk to me, which makes me feel good and the facts that he’s starting to miss me and still loves. I like that he actually wants to talk to me

    #17396
    Confused_Girl
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    Do you guys thing he’ll eventually snap out of this?

    #17416
    Maria
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    Only time will tell. Right now just let it be. I know is hard, but so far I think is going good, he keeps contacting you which is a lot more than some people get.
    I have not heard from my ex from my ex 🙁

    #17417
    Confused_Girl
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    He keeps contacting me daily now

    #17473
    Maria
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    I think somewhere int he plan it says that you can tell them if you have to, just say ” I am taking sometime for myself right now” and don’t elaborate further. Read what Kevin says and go from there.

    #17490
    Confused_Girl
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    I’m going to sound stupid asking this, but which article is it from?

    #17494
    Maria
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    is the one on the very first page:

    “Should I tell my ex that I am doing no contact?
    Ideally no. You want them to wonder what happened to you and why you are not contacting them. You want to be on your ex’s mind as much as you can. And telling them you are not contacting for some time will defeat this purpose.

    However, if your ex is currently calling you everyday or texting you everyday, then yes you should let them know that you don’t want them to contact you for a short period of time. Don’t give them any specifics. Just tell them to not contact you until you decide to contact them. Let them know you need some space and time right now.”

    #17497
    Confused_Girl
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    That made me think of when he asked I wanted to talk to him, I told I’ve been busy with friends and other stuff, I think he is starting to wonder why I’m not talking to him some. Him doing that really makes me feel missed, which is part of I want to happen

    #17540
    Confused_Girl
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    Sorry to double post, I’m just confused. But should I just stop talking for a few days and just take some more time for me? That’s really the only thing I know I should right now.

    #17550
    Maria
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    Listen to your gut, what is it saying?

    #17557
    Confused_Girl
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    To just give it some time, pray and focus on me. And that he’ll come back soon enough

    #17562
    Maria
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    Then listen to it, it very rarely if ever our gut is wrong.

    #17602
    Confused_Girl
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    I guess I’m just getting anxious and wanting all my hard to really show now

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