Did I mess up (again?)

OMG! More feelings? Absolutely do not text that! You’ve already done begging and this sounds disguised as more of the same. I don’t know if all is lost, but if you keep this up, your chances will probably drop dramatically. Pun intended (too much drama). Sorry, you really need to chill..

Just trying to help you if I can and it’s not a bother for me. Good luck

Okay here the deal bro. Snooping always bad. Refrain. Next assuming. Something thinking that other people are saying or doing bad stuff to us make us look bad. (Trust me bad) show her stability. Well i also see you have a hard time of not speaking. Here’s the thing about nc. You create a shroud of mystery and cover yourself upon it. But if you talk too much. She will know everything about you. That would mean she wouldnt be interested in a story she already knows the answer to. Become unpredictable. Now. Show you are a good friend to her. But not too much. A pushover is never good. It’s like this “you are special so I’ll do this for you but there are limits” kind of stuff. She is currently a friend. And if she doesnt value her you should start valuing her time less. You know like when she invites you. You occasionally decline. Why? She is not a priority anymore. If she valued you more you would have given her better treatment. Do it in a nice way tho like. “Im sorry im busy studying” or “Im at a friends house and i need to finish something before the deadline or whatever.” Why? She needs to value you more. Project higher value. Improve if necessary. Study harder. Exercise. Meet new people. Do anything that will make you a perfect choice.

O yeah and if you seem certainly like your in the zone where in she says “you a good friend” dont and i mean dont reply. Start nc immediately like a week. I know that one sucks. But you have to avoid being that good friend. You want to be a great find. Not a great friend.

People who cant leave their exs usually are people who cant adjust without a certain person in his or her life and has fear. It differ from each person. Now. You need to improve on how you interact to her. Give her a shocker. Dude. No contact. She’s doing you a favor. If she exts you in the middle of it you would lose all composure. Actually you are probably losing it now. Remember those who usually speak more fk up more. Less is best when it come to these. Lessen emotion. Lessen stess. Stop thinking ahead. You dont need to be two steps ahead. Just focus on yourself for now. Im sure there is an aspect in yourself even you dont like?

You continue to torture yourself. Please stop wondering what she thinks or what she is doing! Caring about someone and wanting to be with someone is a relationship are two different things. If she texts, don’t freak, and don’t answer. You have annoyed her too much already! You’re going to the concert at the end of the month..take it from there.