Boards Reconciliation Complicated as can be. Need help asap.

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  • #2272
    a.z
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    You can contact her.if she is cold,you be cold.if she is warm,you be warm.as long as you don’t look needy,too emotional,everything is fine.

    #2725
    sevensevens
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    So.

    Since then, we’ve been texting and skyping. Still so confusing tho. We skyped the other day for literally about 7 hours. Was really good to talk face to face and actually get the look in her eyes I had been trying to incite since she left with the utmost confidence. The end result of the skype was the two of us having the cameras set up as tho we were lying down next to each other. Neither one of us could hit the end button, all that good stuff, basically brought it back to the long distance bliss stage. Felt like we made great progress. I made a point of it to pinpoint all of her problems with our situation, and come up with solutions. As well as all my issues she needs to see change. Im in the process of proving it instead of just saying it all. As well as let her know whatever she choosed to do was straight with me. Ive been getting applications for her, looking into the schooling situation, finding her a therapist, apartments, and pretty much prepping everything for when and if she does come back. Which is what I ultimately want. I even got her to basically admit the only reason she wont come back as of yet is because she told all of her friends and her mom that she was there to stay and she doesnt want to upset them (good to know upsetting them is the biggest worry of OUR relationship). I made a point of it to insinuate she could come up here for the weekend, spend a little quality time she never got before she left. She keeps kinda shutting it down. Talked to her yesterday (day after we skyped into bliss stage), and she did a complete 180 and was acting like everything was fine for her. So confusing.

    #2726
    a.z
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    Don’t worry about anything and keep up the good job.never act needy and don’t be the one who always initiates contact.

    #2728
    sevensevens
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    Thanks. Just SO confusing. Emotional rollercoaster

    #2730
    a.z
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    Yeah,thats totally understandable.just be cool about everything and avoid any negative thought.

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