broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :(

Stick to no contact for ATLEAST 30 days.
If he tried contactin you before then just ignore it then text him back after 30 days.
If 30 days come and he hasn’t tried go a little longer.
He already knows you miss and love him. But it’s not good enough yet. You have good signs he said he still loves you and if you really believe yor love was so want to be he will realize that but he has to miss you first. Don’t be waiting up for him. Prove to yourself you can be fine without him.

I understand. I’m on my second round of no contact myself but hey guess what you’re a step close than I am he’s actually said he still loves you.
My guys with another girl
Flirst around so much
And he would probably tell me he doesn’t love me anymore if I asked.
So you hVe a lot more hope than I do.

I know it’s hard and it’s all you can think or worry about. But in order to get him back or increase your chances. You’re gonna need to go no contact for awhile. You can’t beg him back.
You cAnt reAssure him how much you love him, cause trust me he already knows. Doing all this will push him further away.

Just please keep doing no contact. We will do this together I’m on day 6 so we are right together except your a little further.
We need to higher out price tag. We need to be confident and independent. Prove to ourselfs we will be ok without him before we get them back. Because if not well always be dependent on them. Worrying about them. Stressing.
Once you start to feel better and more confident and start to stop thinking about him.
That’s when he’s gonna come crawling back.

I wouldn’t write the letter if I were you, continue through with NC and keep yourself busy with something that takes your mind off him.

Its very similar to the situation im in, I wrote a letter however she is yet to find it. There are some things I regret writing in it now as it could push her further away but I also wrote many valid things that might get the message across so it could go either way.

Have you tried talking to other guys? A little date here and there could be very effective.

Since you broke NC rule once and immediately after it you told him you love him, you probably have to do NC again.

I feel you and surely it is not easy. I am also in my first day of NC. Let us try and become sirens. Some sort of women, our men cannot resist after this time. Just because our great self-confidence and marvellous appearance, they will eventually commit to us.

I believe in that but the way up there will be hard. So stay strong girl!

Omg I am exciting haha 😀

I am so happy for you that he text. Good luck. I have given up hope with mine he has not text me but I am happy things are working for you xx