Boards Reconciliation broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :(

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  • #12301
    aamls
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    where did he block you from? what a fucking day. ugh hang in there at least you have a chance. me hes taking me to court and I have to deal with all this shit now. stay strong you got this. πŸ™‚

    #12303
    divjun
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    He’s not being honest with me. He was talking to the girl who tried to create misunderstanding between us. He told me he didn’t like to talk to anyone buy was online for 2 hours. When I told him, he got mad. I asked him if he loved me. He said yes but didn’t want to be with me. He said I wont tell you with whom I talk to or meet. Everyone has secrets and if I ll ask those, he has to lie. I mean wtf?
    We were having a talk and suddenly he got mad. He waa already angry. Then blocked me from whatsapp. I texted him 7 times. No reply from him. πŸ™

    #12305
    aamls
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    not nice of him. I would suggest that you ignore him for now and dont chase after him. give him space for a while and do things to keep you busy. basically do no contact all over again. hang in there. :-/

    #12312
    divjun
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    But I dont want to Spend a single day without him πŸ™
    I am recalling the love dare but I have been doing the nice things that I can do.
    He is the one ignoring me πŸ™
    I literally pleades him to talk to me and rold him how much I love him. I told him we could work on this. But he thinks he is doing all right and I am the one to be blamed. πŸ™

    #12313
    divjun
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    Pleaded*

    #12318
    aamls
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    dont do that divjun. stay strong you can do this. I know you dont want to be a day with out him but I think you need to take a break especially when hes the one pushing you away again. be patient and take it slow. stay strong you can do this. πŸ™‚

    #12333
    divjun
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    I texted him again.. why am I doing like this. And why is he acting like he doesn’t care. I shouldn’t have texted him. πŸ™ but this is so wrong of him. I wont text him again. But what if he texts me? We didn’t say that we are breaking up or something like that.

    #12335
    aamls
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    dont text him anymore. if he texts ignore him. make him look for you.

    #12339
    otherone
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    agreed, let him sit and wonder. its our most powerful tool

    #12342
    divjun
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    Well, I texted him like I need him and I love him so much. I told him that we’ll work it out. Etc etc. But if he texts me and I ignore it, it would look rude. Also, we were having troubles in our relation and he didn’t want to talk about anything. What if he’s ready to talk about that?
    if he doesn’t text me, I ll leave him a text explaining that I tried my best and I give up now because I dont think I deserve to be treated that way etc etc. And then start my NC?
    I feel like he’ll text me tomorrow night if I don’t text him anymore.

    If he talks to me, I ll clearly state that he needs to be honest with me and what not.

    What do you both think?

    #12345
    divjun
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    Also, I feel that NC wouldn’t work this time because I already did it 2 times in last two months. He will get used to not hearing from me and I think he won’t reach out for me this time. Plus, I am not emotionally ready for this NC.

    #12346
    aamls
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    I think its rude the way hes treating you. I think that you should ignore him and do no contact with out explaining anything. teach him a lesson.

    #12348
    divjun
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    @aamls hmmm this is so tough. I dont want to repeat this all over again.
    well lets see if he tries to contact me or not tomorrow. I wont text him anymore.

    #12349
    otherone
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    i know this is gonna sound horrible but you could do nc longer. i mean, really. 2 months is nothing. an ex of mine came back to me (as a friend, dont want anything more from her now and i really loved her/was obsessed) after 5 YEARS

    #12392
    aamls
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    yes just continue to keep yourself busy. if you have no other choice you may find yourself having to do nc all over again. :-/

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