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@aamls how to take a break? I am not texting him first. If I ignore him, it would look rude on my part and it might push him away.
giving him space and time seems like the only option I have.what game does he play? cant you start showing interest in the things he likes and start playing that game? you may enjoy it as well and will get his attention. just a though. 🙂
I already play that game. Lol.
He is not much interested in spending time with me. It would be best if I stop making initiative for spending time.
Well, he didn’t come to meet me. And its okay. I wont ask him again to meet me.
When he’ll text me, I’ll talk to him.
Does it sound good?
Do you really think he’ll get normal after a while or is this a permanent change? 🙁Its not a two player game. And I have to concentrate on my exams as well. I don’t really want any distractions but I do want him to be like before. He was so loving and caring and always talked about our marriage and showed me his love but this is not the case now 🙁
It will come back – he just needs time. I do however think you’re letting him off the hook a little too easy but i also understand that he needs some time. Yeah, just wait for him to text you and everything will be fine eventually.
I see. but yes your studies are more important atm. cassie is right he will come back around. give him time and space and try a different approach since it is a different relationship. 🙂 see if that helps.
Thanks both 🙂
okay so I wont take any initiative. I am leaving it all to god. Till then I ll try to study and if he texts me , I ll talk to him nicely 🙂So okay,
he texted me at night.
we talked a bit.
then he started playing his game for an hour and came back and talked to me about it. He then started talking to our mutual friend. He told me before starting to talk to her.
He was then replying me late and my last text was “okay” to whick he didn’t reply for 10 mins but was online. I texted him again and he said ” I told you yesterday not to text me first.” I was like umm okay. We again talked for sometime about the doctor and the problem he was having. I gave my views. In the middle of our conversation he disappeared. May be he was gone for the game. Its been 2.5 hours since he didn’t reply and I didn’t text him again.
I don’t think I will receive any text from him tonight. 🙁
he again didn’t wish me good night and I do t expect that he’ll wish me good morning as well.. it sucks 🙁stay strong divjun. 🙂 let him look for you and in the mean time keep yourself busy. dont call or text him anymore. stay strong you can do this. 🙂 be happy hes by your side. everything will work itself out little by little. give him time and space. you got this 🙂
@aamls yeah I am doing everything which you said.
I didnt text him. He texted me in the morning, wishing me good morning and telling me he got up late and is running to college. I replied to him nicely when I woke up and saw his texts. In return he replied with a kiss smiley to which I didn’t reply.
Anyways he didn’t text me after coming back feom college and didnt even say anything about gym. So I think I am not going to the gym today.Anyways, I say the movie tou recommended. “Fire proof”. I really liked the movie. Does it happen in real also? I hope my bf also realises that he has been treating me wrong. 🙁
but I am treating him nicely. 🙂
I dont think I should text him first as he wouldn’t like that.your doing really well. keep it up, he should come around sooner or later. even though he sounds stubborn atm hopefully with time he starts treating you better. 🙂 the movie is of things that happen in real life. you could try the love dare on him to see how it works. 🙂 if I get my husband back its what im going to do. 🙂 I hope he comes back. :'(
He will come back. Have faith.
well I am treating him nicely even if he is not even giving me any of his attention. I dont know how to be a little more nicer for him. I am doing all that I can do right now. 🙁thanks divjun Im running low in faith lately. 🙁 your doing great he just needs more time, like you tell me,lol, be patient. hang in there your doing great. 🙂
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