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@cassie nice advise. 😀 cassie said it all divjun. 🙂
no problem, 🙂 yes time will heal everything. 🙂 I agree with cassie waiting is nightmare, lol, ugh this sucks lol :-/
Hey guys, I have an update.
So we didn’t meet today.
He texted me at night. And at first, he wasn’t rwplying continuously as he was busy playing games. We talked a bit about normal stuff.
I checked my facebook after a long time and I saw he was back on facebook (he deactivated his account almost 2-3 weeks back). He is not added in my friend list.
I dont know if he really plays game or is busy on facebook.
But I don’t want to be so negative about it. Tonight I asked him why he talked to me less.
He told me that he was reading something on the Internet. And I am talking like he is busy with everyone and not talking to me.
I said no its not like that.its just that he doesn’t talk like before.So he told me
“I don’t like to talk to anyone. I was just thinking to tell you this but you always take it peraonally.”I said no its alright. And he should feel free to tell me anything.
He asked me not to text him first. He will text me whenever he will feel to talk.
I said yes sure. Its okay.i understand.
( I think I indirectly had a little talk)
Then we talked like half an hour or so about random stuff. He was teasing me and making me feel jealous.
Its was all good. I asked him twice or thrice for a kiss and he finally gave me one. Lol.
But didn’t say he love me.
Anyways, I think he’ll get better. I am giving him space and won’t text him first. I ll talk to him only when he’ll text me.I think it went great and I did the right thing.
divjun I think you did great. 🙂 keep doing what your doing. take it day by day. your one strong person for everything your going through and having your head on your shoulders the way you do. 🙂 keep it up. 🙂
You did do great! 🙂 He is slowly coming back around but just please don’t try and have any talks with him or ask him questions like that. If it’s what you did in your previous relationship, do everything you can to hold it back now! I’m not sure I like the fact that he wants to be in a relationship with you but doesnt want you to contact him first… it seems as if he wants you but not the whole you. However, hopefully with time this will change when he has his space.
Thanks @cassie and @aamls 🙂
If he is saying the truth that he doesnt like to talk to anybody, then its better for me to stay away.Moreover, he texted me before going to college. He never did that before.
though he didn’t wish me good morning.
I clicked some new pictures of mine and sent it to him. He was very impressed and loved them.
he isn’t coming to the gym because he has to go to the doctor.
But I asked him if he would like to meet me. He said yes. Now lets see if he comes or not. 🙂That’s great!!! 🙂 So happy for you – hope he comes but if he said yes then he probably will 🙂
Yeah @cassie. I am at the gym right now. I can’t meet him late. So I hope he comes early. Fimgers crossed. 🙂
This is excellent news @divjun just keep him interested and try not to analyse his every move he will come in his own time you know what guys are like with their distractions!
@dan thanks a ton 🙂
Will he get normal with time? I don’t know why isn’t he interested 🙁
Can you guess?He will get normal again with time, you may want to back off slightly with the contacting perhaps another week of NC, he might just wonder where you’ve gone so suddenly, keep him curious. See if he tries to initiate contact with you.
@dan but he himself told me not to text him first.
:/ I dont know what does it means but all I know is that I don’t have any other optiondivjun stay strong I think you should take a break from him again and see how he reacts to this. maybe 4 days and see. yes give him time and space for now its all you can do. at least hes being honest with you and contacting you so those are good signs. just be patient. good luck. 🙂
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