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Thanks @RustyRed
I basically realized his minor changes back in August. He was deeply influenced by MGTOW. I support people to go on their own way. Don’t get me wrong. But his reactions were too aggressive and rude to a level which I cannot bare no more.
Thank you guys for being supportive these days. I hope you all well and really be happy with what you want to achieve.
Cheers 🙂
Well actually he blocked me first today on facebook damn it!! I was too slow…
We had fight on messenger simply because he recalled the past.
I remembered that he said he would like to help me if I asked. But guess what.. today he not only refused me but also recalled the past and then blocked me on messenger.
Guys, this is a tough road, but i think it might be the time for me to not think about him any more. He’s way too immature which I can’t communicate with him on the same level no more.
If I still did, it’s just torturing myself
@ RustyRed, @CreeD
I simply can’t believe that was him talking there. Today his mean comments continued. He said about fitness he was speaking from experience. “You just can’t take the hard truth. Which is your value is diminishing.” He said he was happy to provide guidance. But you just failed yourself because it was not accepted as a proper lifestyle. You would rather spent time throwing emotional tampons than actually living with healthy habits. Now you are a dry piece of steak that I refuse to chew. and I simple laugh at her attempt in re-assuring her self worth.
I seriously doubt if he truly understands what emotional tampons mean.
And I simply cannot believe he said this. That comment can be seen for our all mutual friends. Of course I fight back too.
But it was odd that when he talked to me privately he didn’t use aggressive words or attitudes.
I am very confused by his actions. several days ago he told his life decision to me still. several days after, he’s being a complete crazy childish person who is full of jealousy. That’s at least how I feel. Any guys mind to share from a male perspective?
I didn’t do anything. 3 days ago I even invited him to my ceremony and thanked for all his efforts on guiding me, accompanying me. Because I act what I truly feel. Although it was him who broke up with me in a very hard way, I still had this appreciated attitude when I thought of him before. And I think his recent actions just completely ruined that.
It could be that she’s thinking about your relationship. Everyone doesn’t feel ok for sometime. If they do after breakup, means they never really cared.
So I would say there’s a possibility that she was thinking all that.
My ex just did something really stupid last night. He made some really mean comments on my pictures. Well he never commented so many words on my pictures when we were together… He was saying that I show off and really a starter in fitness kinda stuff. He just basically can’t see that I am progressing well. I’m not sure whether that’s pure jealousy or he just hates me so much…
I am already speechless now
Hey,
I think you should respond her msg in a not very warm way but a friendly way.
Just so that she might be curious. I don’t know. I’m just stating the fact how my ex is treating me now. And I got curious. well.. about all of the things in his life 😛
Damn!!
I am.
But surprisingly he messaged me yesterday to say that why he didn’t show up for my ceremony. And also told me about his decision for his future career.
I thought that he wasn’t gonna contact me no more.
But I don’t understand why he told me all of this all of sudden….
Same as @Kahlad1031 I recently have been more active on social media…especially instagram.
And I just got unfollowed by my ex on instagram this week 🙁
He remained all my other social media contacts just not instagram. I posted pictures on a daily basis. Not a lot of selfies but a lot about lives. aka what I ate, my gym fitness look, and the EDM show I went with my friends.we haven’t really talked since the beginning of the month. And we broke up in January. so I guess I kept NC until yesterday..
Gosh I cannot help it. I invited him to my ceremony. He congratulated me but didn’t response whether he would show up. And it turned out that he didn’t.
I am really sad now. I am afraid to lose him forever. Since he’s not only an ex to me but my best friend during the past two years.
Guys!! Please help. Is my ex moving on really? What should I do?
I’ve thought similar stuff too to be honest.
I spent a lot of times thinking why he lost interests and initiated the break up.During the past two months, I’ve changed a bit, both internally and externally. I started to understand a lot of things he said before and why that made sense. I started to go to gym everyday to make myself feel better and good in shape.
I think the changes on the outside is easy to be recognized. However, I just don’t know how would my ex recognize my internal changes. He seemed not willing to meet up. So there would be no chance for him to see my changes inside.
Please HELP!!!!
