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  • August 10, 2014 at 4:48 am in reply to: No Contact Annoymous – Share your struggles with keeping NC #2212
    wesley
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    Hi All,

    NC day 13 here. I’m struggling because me ex has a new boyfriend. They’ve been seeing each other for close to 2 months now. I’m not sure if he is a rebound or not. What makes things harder is we were long distance. She reached out to me just before the weekend. It was so hard not to reply. I broke up with her so I’m worried the more I ignore her the more she the thinks I’m none with her and the more I drive her into his arms.

    August 9, 2014 at 5:15 pm in reply to: No contact long distance #2100
    wesley
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    Thanks sunshine, i read your story and I can see a lot similar to mine. The thing I’m wrestling with NC is that I’m not doing it to build attraction – I know she is still into me. It needs to be for me to get over her so I can get her back, but I’m feeling better now, and I’m worried that me ignoring her is confirming to her I’m over my hurt so I don’t want her again. My main issue is convincing her my feelings are real as I only reacted after she started dating someone else.

    August 9, 2014 at 5:12 pm in reply to: May seem impossible but I want to try my best to get back with him #2099
    wesley
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    the meeting up after long distance NC is the hard thing for me too, it’s hard to make it casual, you have to travel so far for what you’re trying to make a casual catch up. you almost need another excuse to be in town and see if they’re free.

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