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Yesh that’s rough. I’m not sure what to do about the other guy exept just be cool with him. Don’t make a big deal of him and you’ll look like the bigger guy and like she’s not bothering you. It will make her take another look at you.
If I may ask, where/what culture do you stem from? Sorry if it’s rude to ask I know there are culture differences that are foreign ideas to me. I’m from the US and frankly, we are loud assholes.
She wants and misses you if she is having her friends talk crap on her to you. Or maybe they are trying to tell you in their own way that she is doing terrible without you?
DO NOT REPLY TO HER MESSAGES!
Keep up no contact until the end! Keep to a typical 30 day NC unless you feel you will lose her if you continue with it that long. Her prompt is showing that she misses you and wants you to feel able to talk to her.
Do something new and fun while waiting and when NC is done, invite her to do it with you and then catch up over coffee or something. Or do something the two of you used to enjoy together a lot. Make sure it’s casual so she doesn’t feel pressured into anything.
If you tell her that you don’t want to talk, she’s gonna back off and feel hurt. Obviously you don’t want that. Just wait it out.
If she’s put off about you not texting back, tell her the truth; you where working some things out and needed space.
It sounds all good to me 🙂 she is worried about you and waiting for you to call and wanting to care for you and cares about you. I’d say you’re doing just fine! Maybe say something In a couple days or a week about going out to do something together like a movie you guys would like to watch, or something date-like that’s not a date and see how it goes. Don’t do this too often; if you go on a couple of these date-like dates, eventually start calling it a date. If she doesn’t like that title, just be cool about it. She might need more time to come around.
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