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@patricia12 : okay just one update. We’ve been texting for a week,very less texts from my side,i make sure i dont over do it,whenever he gets network he replies. One of his friends started taking my case on facebook on some post and started flirting with me n i told him about it n he said hes an ass trying to get ur attention. So i said yes and that i miss having him around. And he said he misses having me too but he cant have the same crazy fight again. I reassured him that i wouldnt want to put us both into it and that times makes you realise things. After that he lost network,and called me up from some friends phone asking me what medicine should he take for his cold. He spoke for sometime but again we lost network. I heard his voice after one and a half months. Im just very anxious about screwing up again! I really want to be the best that there is..and i dont know how to go about this. Im scared,more scared than before. please help!
@patricia12 Yeah he did tell me that,that whats the point of being together if i cant see you. We are from the same country and hes told me exactly where he is but i dont think i should say all that here. Probably next year he’ll get leave but im not sure where i would be then,how things would be between us,maybe id have moved on,who knows? Its all a question mark and only time can tell. But yes whatever happens by the end of the year ill definietly update you. I have an exam on 7th december and until then i dont really want to think about all this. Maybe id drop a text by the end of the month but thats it. I have goals,and a deadline too which is more important than anyone. Deep inside i know it wont work out but its just the hope thats there,and i hope i can kill it someday. Thank you for all your replies and for always being stern with me,i really needed that! Hope you get what your looking for as well 🙂 take care!
@patricia12 : everytime i read ur advice it really calms me down! Well the whole situation is really bad,in our country i mean,19 of his colleagues got killed. But now its getting a little better,cant really say. His leave in december has been cancelled. It seems unlikely that ill be seeing him this year which is also why he told me to move on previously. Meeting seems like a farway thought now. Anyway he said hes sorry too.and thats about it now. Im not texting further or stalking him like i used to and i really dont feel the need to,i want him but i dont need him.And yeah now i guess ill just message him after a couple of weeks right to check on how hes doing?
Or maybe im just misreading everything. Maybe hes just being nice to me and he has moved on. Cause from today he has access to network and it tears me to see him liking other girls pictures on instagram etc. also i think i excessively messaged him n he is back to thinking of me as clingy.anyway the conversation has ended with me saying im sorry for the things ive said before(in our ugly fight one month back)and now i dont know!Im really confused! Please help me!
No its okay if you did that. But try not to text or go on his profile anymore. You may also want to consider extending nc a little longer
Hey i couldnt help but add that i really liked what you wrote in the end. “Get ur ex back” should not be the ultimate goal in life! Im so glad to hear from like minded people! I too think the same n after starting my nc ive realized there is so much more to do and even though we all love out respective partners and would want them back,life does go on! I think more than getting my ex back m glad m atleast getting my life back on track and thay is more important than anything in the world! Ur doing great! Keep us dated! Goodluck
@donnabella : hey there,i too feel you should not read too much into this,use the no contact and try to move on. since hes on the wesr coast,you communicate once a month,and you dont have his number,and also the fact that he didnt ask you for yours,pretty much sums it up. I might be wrong,but this is what seems like the best option. You have so much more to look forward in your life,dont give it away on someone who would not spend that much time on you. You deserve the best there is! Goodluck 🙂
