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Please help me guyz..i need your advices. I think i spoiled everything. Please look over my thread,
Thank you. Yeah i agree,i showed little care and interest. I enquired about his studies, and i initiated to do combined studies with him. I will restart NC. I think it is his trick of helping me,he found out my whereabouts and became silent later. His results are being announced on august 21st. I want to wish him all luck the before day and enquire about his results. Can i wish him all the best and enquire about his results as it is emergency in our case. What should i do,please help mee
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Thank you. I will follow your suggestion. I think i unnecessarily contacted him. I am feeling so bad for breaking NC rule. Now my chances of getting back my ex are spoiled?? By following NC i can improvise my chances of getting him back? Please help meee
Please help me. I am new here. I should start NC from beginning or should i start professional contact with him.. Is it wise to avoid him, if he is trying to help me in studies?? He is only initiating to help me. I indirectly showed him that i am ok with breakup, and trying to focus on my health and studies
Please help me. I am new here. I should start NC from beginning or should i start professional contact with him.. Is it wise to avoid him, if he is trying to help me in studies?? He is only initiating to help me. I indirectly showed him that i am ok with breakup, and trying to focus on my health and studies
Please help me. After 2weeks of no contact,my ex texted me on 15th day regarding my health and studies. We both are in same profession. I replied him regarding studies. Conversation is strictly limited to studies,we both thought of doing combined studies. He did not bring personal conversation nor i. I understood clearly that he is not interested in me or relation and he is completely concentrating on career, i too want to help him in career. What should i do now, shall i start no contact from beginning or reply if at all he texted me regarding studies
Thank you everyone for your feedback and support:) due to bed rest i cannot go out. But i will try to improve mentally. I will take this as challenge and i will improve. I too wanna forget him and move on because he values physical appearance more. But right now it is very difficult for me. I love him madly. And i am saying na, he is changed just from few months. Before he is not like this and never valued physical appearance. I strongly believe that he left me for my behaviour or for his career or for his parents. Its hard for me to believe that he left me for beauty.I wish he would be back caring and loving me like before.
LAST DOUBT,WILL BOYS LEAVE THIER GF FOR THEIR CAREER OR FOR PARENTS? I used to support him a lot in his career.Because of his confused behaviour my insecurity feelings raised. Because of my accident and bed rest i am becoming fat. What fault i have? He also asked me to put braces for my teeth so that i can look even more pretty. But i did not consider his request. May be he was angry for that also. I AM SO CONFUSED WHY HE LEFT ME-BECAUSE OF MY NEGATIVE BEHAVIOUR,OR BECAUSE OF BEAUTY OR BECAUSE OF HIS PARENTS. HIS PARENTS ARE AGAINST OUR MARRIAGE. After breaking up,he gave this also as the reason that he don’t want to be against his parents. I truely agree that i have negative qualities. I want to rectify. I love him truly. DON KNOW WHY HE IS CHANGED.HE NEVER USED TO GIVE IMPORTANCE TO PHYSICAL APPEARANCE BUT SUDDENLY ACTED CONFUSINGLY. I want him back. I want to change my negative behaviour. I have any chance of getting him back if i improve myself???
Thank you.. I think he is very much frightened with my over emotions,negativity, dependency,insecure feeling. So,He lost interest in me. Other reason may be my beauty. But jus 2days before breaking up, he said he cant be without talking to me,without thinking of me. He said he is emotionally connected to me. But at the same time he said he want a beautiful girlfriend. He used to act confusingly right before breakup like he used to say he wants me, but he also wants a beautiful gf and asked me how many days i should wait for u to become beautiful.Even after breakup,he talked to me,he helped me in my work but again he said he is no longer interested in relationship and wants to concentrate on career. I was gone mad literally with his confused approach.
I started NC since 10 days. I didnt heard anything from him since a month. My other negative aspects besides insecurity is over thinking,over emotions. I think i frightened him and pushed him further with these aspects. His last word is “i am unhappy with u,no guy can bear u.i want to concentrate on career”. WHAT DO YOU THINK ARE THE REASONS FOR OUR BREAKUP? The fact is i am becoming fat due to bed rest. I cant go out,my job is lost. I am so depressed. I thought he will support me,but he left me. WILL HE COME BACK TO ME? Please help meee
