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So here’s an up date, basically i met up with her for coffee and explained how im thinking of things differently now etc. last time i saw her id had about 40 hours of air travel and i think it may not of helped much. So we discussed what i wanted and what she wanted etc and have managed to get things off on the right foot again, early days but its looking positive 🙂
I broke it off in the first place as she seemed to be lossing what attracted me to her in the first place.. That drive and individuality that people all have,and should still have whle with someone else. Also i thing is wasnt in the right head space to settle down and commit completly, dont ge me wrong i was totally loyal to her. Maybe I was just scared to the idea of full commitment in the long term?. Now i see things differently and they seem clear as day. I guess people can change 🙂 and would love to show her that even after the hurt ive done that it can be good again… It’s getting that trust back when the person you cared for has suggested they dont want to now.
Hiya, yeah i wondered if i’d be the first in this situation. Thanks for not flaming me at posting it up, so i have been in reg contact with her over this time period, when i was here and over seas. Ive not been back very long and i guess im slightly impatient to get thing under way again. As i guess you suggested it the “dumper” 🙂 ive also been the one on the other side in a few occasions aswell.. So i know how it feels also, Not very nice!
I guess what im saying is the time apart deffinatly made things clear for me to pursue what i should have NOT let go of in the first place. Im going to try the no contact thing and see if she comes around when she is good and ready.
