Shernalcoolcat

Patricia thank you for your reply.

I was with him for nine years and we had split up twice before. In August I said I need to know where I stand he said thought you knew I just want to be friends Iv got you a job mown your lawn got a prom car for your daughter. I said you cant do all those things if you dont care.
He replied I do care or i wouldn’t of done all those things.
I started no contact for a week before I found this site. He kept trying to text me and came and fetched his boots off the porch. I text him saying i know your angry with me but i do love you and care about you. After that we were texting every day.
HE was also on what’s app messaging someone so I decided to not text and see how long it took him to text me. It was a week so I did no contact properly.

He tried to contact me 3 days in a row then everyweek to begin with for the first 30 days. For the next 90 days he has been texting my daughter every couple of weeks about something. Xmas eve,boxing day,day after new years eve
He text my daughter who he never liked again last night to see when her driving test is!
Why keep in touch if youve moved on?
This is why Im so confused
I am trying to move on but it is hard.

This site has helped me keep sane..

Thank you