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@patricia12 I bought a house close to my job and all my family is here. I didn’t buy a house in her area because it’s in the deep country and the job market is poor. She doesn’t have a career in her area. I tried to convince her to move with me for a better life. She likes living in the country. I’m the bread winner so I expect her to follow my lead. She lives with her mom.
Okay, I’ll send her an email. Thank you!
@patricia12 No we didn’t have any other problems. It’s about a 2 hour drive apart from each other. When I called and texted she didn’t answer or respond.
I agree with you. I don’t understand how she was with me for 7 years trying to have a kid and now she doesn’t want sex before marriage anymore.
I do think that she’s scared of dying and going to hell because she’s having health issues. I think her pastor and mom convinced her to push me away. All these years we’ve been together she told me she wanted to live her own life and not let her mother control her.
Do you think I’m doing the right thing by going into no contact? I really love this woman and I want to continue the relationship. I was going to propose to her again. On the other hand I don’t want her to think I’ll wait around forever. I want to move on and get over my broken heart. I don’t want to text her because it hurts being rejected, especially since she said I did nothing wrong. I’m giving her time to work thru her issues.
@patricia12 thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and giving your advice.@patricia12, I called to ask how is she doing and how did the dr appointment go. She won’t talk to me. I don’t understand why she just pushed me out of her life. That’s the part I don’t understand.
@patricia12, no I didn’t have children with my ex-wife. I had a stepdaughter. My ex wife couldn’t have anymore children. Yes my ex girlfriend had sex thru out the entire relationship. We even had fertility treatment with trigger shots. We did 4 rounds of fertility treatment to help us conceive. I waited 4 years to propose because I wanted to be financially ready. I was living with an aunt at the beginning of our relationship. I’m doing a lot better financially and I’ve bought a nice home. She said it wasn’t the right time for her to get married. She wasn’t saying yes or no. I think she wasn’t ready to relocate at the time. We live in two different cities. I think she wasn’t ready to leave her church.
I don’t know why she didn’t continue to see me anymore. I told her I have no problem with no sex before marriage. She knows I want to marry her. I think her mom is making her feel guilty for dating a divorced man. Her mom thinks it’s a sin. I tried to contact my ex girlfriend but she won’t talk to me. You’re right it has only been a month. I’m giving her time and space. I’m hoping she’ll reach out to me when she’s ready.
