richdeniro

Going through the breakup a second time now which feels even worse. Sorry for posting here again but I just feel I need to tell someone even if it is just a internet message board.

We met up again back at the beginning of June as my last post above alludes to and were been seeing each other casually, she assured me she wasn’t seeing anyone else in that time but things felt different to how they were before.

She would be online on whatsapp in the evenings for long periods and despite me sending messages and seeing her online would take forever to respond to them. When we went out she would take every opportunity when I went to the loo or to the bar to get back on whatsapp and when she was staying at mine would lean forward so I couldn’t see who she was messaging. I called her up on it and she would tell me it’s nothing and that I was overthinking.

Anyway, long story short I was certain she was in at least an emotional relationship with someone or maybe a few other guys and just couldn’t get past it as it just felt so much more different to before when I did feel like I was the only guy for her and would be the first one she messaged in the morning and last thing at night.

We met up for a drink two weeks ago and spoke a bit about it and she asked if it were possible for us just to be friends. I told her I don’t think I can and said I obviously want more, told her to sleep on it and the next night she sent me a message saying: “Rich sorry but gonna take a break I’m sorry don’t worry I won’t block you as we can still stay in touch x things are different in not feeling it anymore x sorry x”. I asked if there was someone else and she replied with “Of course I meet people when I go out I suppose i won’t know what I’m looking for until it hits me”. The final message she sent read “I suppose I just need to fancy someone more please don’t feel bad I know you have tried harder lately buts it’s not enough sorry”.

And that’s it really, I didn’t reply to that and haven’t contacted her since. She messaged me the night after ending it with ‘You ok?’ and I didn’t reply. A couple of days ago tried to reach out if you can call it that by challenging me to a game of Words with Friends on Facebook, again I ignored. Going through a second break up with her in the space of a couple of months and it sucks a bit I suppose. I guess it’s probably finally over and just wanted to write it all down to get it off my chest and maybe get some advice. My head is all over the place really. Do you think she’ll get back in touch with me at some point again? Currently on day 12 of no contact. I don’t know what I’ll do if she does.