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She said she misses hanging out with me, she didn’t said that she missed me. Also I think there is a big difference in missing someone and wanting someone back.
So I don’t count on it that she wants me back. Heck I don’t even want to count on it because it will only hurt me in the end.
Thanks for the heads up tough. 🙂I’m so sick of this heartbreak.. I want it to heal ASAP..
I just want to move on already… I’m tired of grieving over this breakup…
I hate that it’s over and I wished that we could be together for a long time, we had all those plans for this summer vacation, she was going to sleep a week at my place because my parents are on vacation.
But that’s all canceled now..After that text I removed all the pictures of us from my phone and I am starting today with no contact for real. And I hope the pain and confusion of breaking up will fade away as quickly as possible..
So this morning she texted back, saying that she was glad I told her this, she thinks alot about the months we spent together and that she misses it because it was fun.
But that she still stands by her decision.Well, that’s fine by me, I told her I just wanted to tell her how I thought about it and it and I didn’t want to change her point of view.
I think this helped me to move on, altough it was good to hear that she misses it and thinks alot about us.
Thanks all for the support, I really appreciate it.
I texted her what I wanted to say! And said that she doesn’t have to react if she wants to, so I don’t know If she will text back.
This shit was in my head for days and I needed to say it to get it out of my system.
I’m glad I did it, the text is in no way a desperate attempt to get her back. In short I told her that I agreed with her on some points but she should’ve told me her issues earlier so that I could work on it. And that it’s a pity our relationship has worked out this way. I also said she doesn’t have to text me back if she didn’t want to, but I just needed to say it.No regrets whatsoever. Sure, at this moment I want her to regret her decision so that we can get back together, and if she doesn’t than so be it.
I would rather move on than to NC in the hopes of getting her back, because this bullshit has happened twice between us already.Nah I already know what I want to say, thanks! I will do all. Yeah I mean, what are the chances that she will contact me after NC for the second time?
(Altough she have me the option to not contact eachother and check whats up after summer vacation)But guys, a few months ago (Last year august until beginning of november) We were hanging out and dateing with eachother and she said it wasn’t going to work. I did NC and on 14 February she contacted me again. (After I liked a picture on her Facebook,, I think this triggered her.)
I don’t think this will hapen twice, that’s why I want to say something.But if I say those things I would also say to her that she doesn’t need to feel obliged to react.
I just want to tell her those things because I came up with them a few days after the breakup.Because then I have said what I wanted to say and I want to keep NC. Then maybe she can think about my view on things and maybe she will think that I was right, or that I am not.
Thanks for the replies! I appreciate it, A LOT!
She did cry, but she also erased all of our pictures.
She drunk texted me, but she didn’t miss me she said.
She asked for a relationship break, denied a week afo that she didn’t want to break up but she broke up.All of the signals are so contradictory, I don’t even know what to do.
I am doubting about keeping no contact, or sending her a message.
Not a message about that I love her and want her back, but a message where I can say that the relationship went wrong.i.e. she told about our relationship issues too late for me, so I didn’t even had the chance to work on them.
And that she should have told her issues to me first instead of to a friend, so that I could give my opinion.
I think after this conversation she decided she wanted to break up with me and that she weighed the took the times we weren’t together heavier than the times we were together in this decision. (We always had fun when together)What do you guys think about this?
