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I was speaking from my own point of view, if I had split up with someone and still had some of there stuff that they had ask back for I myself would get it back to them as soon as possible and not hang onto it. I do agree though and feel a lot better that I did when we broke up and feel back in control of my life.
I agree @patricia12 having had time to think things over when we first met we had been set up by our mutual friends and so it felt a bit like an arranged marriage and I wasn’t very committed and so when she asked to be just friends I agreed readily but as we kept spending time together feeling grew and so I didn’t respect her decision and devalued myself by begging and asking for her to try again. I feel a lot stronger now and know what I want but am not afraid of not getting her back. I understand where she’s coming from and if it was up to me I would have stay and work on it but I understand her decision and so wish her well and all the best. As for the dvds they are just dvds and easily replaced, it just seemed weird not to just return them ASAP if she wasn’t interested in a future for us both and just wanted to move on but I’m not a mind reader and so can’t say what is going through her mind.
