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  • in reply to: this one is difficult! #47022
    nuxx
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    You have 1500 posts on this site. You didn’t follow any of the steps that Kevin has said, you’re basically sitting here all days obsessing about your ex. And things aren’t going to change if you keep doing this. Kaila told you how it is, get out, go out with friends, do something new. Sitting here all day wont make your ex come back. Sorry but that’s just how it is.

    in reply to: Sent the letter! Help! #43555
    nuxx
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    Alright i don’t want to sound harsh or anything but @ellie it just sounds you’re not over him. The ENTIRE point of NC was to work on yourself, and to realize no matter what happens next you can and will live on without your ex, like you’ve lived prior to that. From reading these past few posts it just seems you’re worried 24/7 and waiting for something that may or may not happen and it’s killing you from the inside. Honestly you need to either do NC for 2-3 months, depends how will it take you to “sort of get over him” and not expect anything in the future. Because in the end, best things happen when you least expect them.

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