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I guess that by her saying I act childish she meaned my neediness. Anyway, we continue to see each other and generally the time we spend with each other is good. Over the last two weeks we had a couple of dates, we kissed a lot in a very passionate way, had sex as well, we text regularly each day.
However, one night she told me that we’ll try to be together once again but she won’t be the same. Meaning that she doesn’t have the feelings towards me that she used to have in the past. And she really doesn’t. She no longer talks to me as if to a lover but as if to a friend. Sometimes she doesn’t let me hug her or hold her hand. Yet sometimes I see her craving for my hugs and kisses. And this occasional cold behavior hurts me and confuses me. So my question is how serious should I take her words that “she won’t be the same” and do you think feelings could ignite again? How long should I continue tolerating her cold behavior?
Update: We met twice. We had a great time together. We talked, hugged, kissed, had sex. Our communication has improved significantly and we are a lot closer than we used to be in the last few months of our past relationship but she still remains unsure whether she wants by in a relationship with me again. She says she is afraid that if we get back together the feelings will fade (which I highly doubt)
I told her that I’m not interested in being friends and she asked me to give her some time to think. I’m currently waiting for her answer…
