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I also have a quick question, should I ask him if I can come pick up my stuff that I left at his house and drop off his stuff or wait a while to do that?
He actually contacted me today and told me he bought the boat and to thank me for showing it to him. I answered and said “Hey you’re welcome. I thought you would have it was a good deal for the exact boat you wanted” He responded and told me how much he bought it for and that it needs a little work like another boat we looked at in the beginning of the summer. I responded and said it was a good deal and just asked where he got it. He hasn’t answer yet hopefully he will answer.
I’m almost positive he bought the boat I sent him, but he did not tell me. It really hurts that he didn’t tell me. Do you think that means he just doesn’t care or is there another reason he didn’t tell me?
Thank you! I am 21 and he is 23, he will be 24 next week. He definitely felt smothered and I believe that is the only reason for the break up as we got along very well. We were best friends and truly did enjoy being with each other for the most part (he told me he enjoyed it). Spending all that time together is what ruined our relationship and I am hoping that we can get back together and learn that we can’t be together as much.
I think the reason he ignored me was because it was too hard for him to actually break up with me. When I saw him in person I could tell he was sad and he did not really want to do it. When we were together he wanted to be with me it was just when we were apart that he did not. When we weren’t together he felt more smothered because I would text him too much. He told me he loved me that day too and that we might get back together just not now. I’m not sure what that means.
He didn’t exactly give me a reason for breaking up with me and he didn’t actually even break up with me he just began ignoring me. I went to his house one day (after about a week of him ignoring me) to see what was going on and he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore or at least right now. There was no reason except that he said that I am too much. I think he means we were together too much. He doesn’t exactly have a full time job and he just does handyman jobs right now (he is young) and I am still in school so during the summer I have a lot of free time. We spent every single day together all day and I think that was just unhealthy because we were together way too much. I went to his jobs with him and we did absolutely everything together. I think we both needed a break, I just didn’t expect for it to be a breakup/ this long.
