thanks. i have been feeling better the more i dont speak to him. i am working on things for me. i am 26.he had cheated 4 times that i know about. i like your forum, i feel it gives me the support i need on what i should do. i do love this person but he has strong committment issues. i think 2 months of no contact is healthy for me. i am talking to other people and not moping around. im trying to reinvent me. thank you so much for your reply.