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You commented on my post and I feel like you gave me such good insight. I think you should just let her be for a little. At least while she’s on vacation. Keep up with the NC. I read your last post and this one and I think that there is still hope for you, but let her miss you. Try not to get angry or upset with her. She’s not forgetting about you or moving on. Even Kevin says to try going on a date while on NC if that’s something you’re comfortable with. I understand it’s not for everyone. Or maybe go out with a friend and not talk about her or your relationship. Be just you for a night.
I’m trying not to preach you words I’m not following myself, since I am dealing with trying to get my ex back too. It’s hard not to let the thoughts consume you. Don’t resist your own happiness.
Wishing you the best of luck. Please update soon
LA,
I love the way you describe what you miss about her. I can only hope that my ex thinks of me that way. I have also been trying to be more active in my personal life. Gym, hanging out with friends, etc. But sometimes he comes creeping back into my mind. It has been 30 days (to the day) since we have spoken. I have only been doing the NC worksheets for 10 days and at this point, I think I need to finish them before I contact him.
This is a great forum and this thread is exactly what I was looking for. It’s good to know that none of us are going through this alone. And we are real people, not testimonials. I wish everyone luck in their journey and hope you chat back with some of you!
