Maya123

Thanks for answering. I guess I should clear a few things up. He never called me his girlfriend and I don’t even know if his parents or friends even knew we were dating or anything more then friends. After four months of dating I brought up the “what are we talk” because things were going well and if had been four months. He said we were exclusively dating and he was 100% committed to me. It wasn’t argumentative it was just a conversation that needed to happen. He said there was hope for more because I made it clear I wanted a serious committed relationship at some point down the line. But after this everything went downhill because he started to ignore me more and act very cold to me at moments. And honestly that was very frustrating because I wasn’t clingy at all. I always told him it was okay if he was busy and we couldn’t hang out. But honestly I was busy too, I’ve been in grad school taking five classss and interning 21 hours a week at a very emotionally draining agency. Yet I didn’t take out my frustration on him and I always made time for him. I told him he didn’t appreciate me because during the last few months he didn’t. He put very little effort into the relationship even though he told me he cared for me and wanted to work things out. It’s very frustrating because the first four months were amazing, he put in so much effort and I could tell he wanted to see me even if he was too busy. I think that’s why I miss him because the beginning was good and I wish it had stayed that way. And I think I have a right to be angry with someone who’s decided that ignoring someone is easier then communicating and talking out problems. I have been dating and talking to other people but I’m just not interested in any of them. I will wish him a happy birthday and we’ll see what happens. I’m just conflicted because I really don’t think he treated me well and I don’t want him to be hurt but I am glad I stood up for myself and told him that, but at the same time he was awesome for so long and I wish I could have that back.

As for law school he was applying to a bunch that were close but also a few that are hours away.