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i use kik and my id is martin92ex if you want you can contact me through that
Yeah I am working on that (doing a write up which i will post here).
Patience is the key, its a lot more complicated than just NC.
@Carmine828
@archola
@nycor
@sodiumC
@confusedbutok
@thephoenix
@Tommys83Hey, an update…after about a year since the break up i can say i have managed to build a stable bridge with my ex; we are hanging out again xD
@all_one
you have just relapsed, it happens from time to time but it will gradually decrease.
There’s no cure for it, just patience
Hey, Good on you. Yeah I have kinda moved on tooâŠtbh I think its actually impossible to move on fully so its normal that you still think about him. Yesterday I found out that she was going on holiday with guy 2 (the second guy she started seeing after the break up with me) to paris. In my head going on holiday with someone within 3 months is kind of too soon but I guess everyone has a different opinion to that. On the top of that Paris was the last place we visited together as a couple so not sure how thatâs going to work out for her.
About RelapsingâŠthe period gets shorterâŠyou will always relapse but you will recover much more quickly after each time.
A quote from Maroon 5âs Payphone song:
You turned out the lights
Now I’m paralyzed
Still stuck in that time when we called it love
But even the sun sets in paradiseLive long and Prosper @Carmine828
P.S do pop back here to say hi once in a while if you can ï
Also @confusedbutok and myself are on kik (username: martin92ex)Hey @nycor
Yeah for him to have said that and put conditions on you is completely unfair. In a way its good he did it because it shows that he has a controlling and manipulative behaviour; you donât want this in your future partner. But you should hang out with whoever you please! âThere are no strings on you!â. Do as you please and please whoever you want. Your friends wonât care but it will get on his nerves which is probably a good thing. Let him create the drama and show everyone his awful nature.
But yeah, I know you may not like it for telling this but itâs definitely a blessing to that the relationship ended. All break ups are hard and you may never ever forget but thereâs all way hope for better love. A love that is loyal, true and makes you feel light. Thereâs a saying that once a cheater, always a cheater.
So good on you, seems like you are back in action!
Hey I have reinstalled kik (username: martin92ex) , i had to get a new one as I forgot the previous one’s login id.
I understand what you mean by the ego thing, I kinda have it to but I am not really sure. I told myself that because I love her, I’d let her go as I want her to be happy.
Hey Everyone,
Feel free to add me up on kik too if you guys want and keep your chin up, you all will eventually heal, there will be scars but it will make you stronger. I can tell this from first hand experience.
Some women want to create sooooo much drama, it is hard being friends with an ex but its not something impossible to do.
Nice to hear from you again, well at least you tried to reach out for her.
Well hears my storyâŠ
Mid June-ish time she contacted me asking me how I am, then after a few exchanges she asked if she could call. In the phone conversation she asked if I was seeing anyone and I responded ânot reallyâ. Her tone changed and said so that means yes right. Anyway later in the phone convo she said she broke up with the guy she got with after me; later she mentioned she is seeing someone.
Mid July-ish she officially got with him (my suspicion); I met her 2 days later in our uni graduation ceremony, it was the first time we saw each other in about 7 months. She cried that day and we hung out a little.
On her bday I met her for 30 mins, had to do it otherwise I felt I would have regretted it later on. That day I made the mistake of telling her that I still want her in my life.
2 days later I texted her saying âhow are you?â , anyway she replied a lot later in the evening saying we canât be friend because we have had something very special and we dated for a long time (4 years approx.). I responded back with a âlolâ, followed by a phone call and told her itâs not like thatâŠI think I also said I would like to meet her to talk to her properly.On 1st August she texted me saying she if I would like to meet up to talk about what I wanted to tell her. I just ignored it (probably the last id hear from her now; but at least I have the power).
Today I learnt that she is going on holiday with him sometime in September.
NC 13 days since.
I am more stronger and in control now. And my relapse periods have shortened immensely so I am happy about that.
I tried to be as brief as possible.
I really wish we could all stay in touch, felt we connected so much through our crisis.
@Carmine828
@archola
@nycor
@sodiumC
@confusedbutok
@thephoenix
@Tommys83How are you guys doing? Its been a while!
Hey it seems so, they have been exchange a lot of heart-to-heart emails apparently. Not sure what I should do now
Hey everyone,
@archola
@sodiumC
@confusedbutok
@thepheonixAnd everyone else I have been in contact with since my break up, soz if I have not included your username as I am a bit tipsy atm.
My ex contacted me today giving me a fright of my life. She told me she has broken up with her bf she went out with after me and is now seeing someone else,
Sorry for the late reply, I have pretty much moved on as well…Id say I have moved on about 80-90%. There are a few moments that I do think about her; also something interesting might arise in her life.
Well you if you love him then take him back it doesnt matter what others say, its your life and you know him better.
Hey everyone,
My ex who had GIGs and broke up with me might now be getting GIGs again with her new bf. What is the most recommended thing to do?
