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thanks for the reply.
I called her, we talked, she sounded like she was enjoying her life (which means she’s not missing me..) and she also sounded like just wanted to be friends..
If she calls again, I’m gonna be unavailable, and then we will seeSo I was thinking about contacting her next week. That’s 5 weeks since we seen each other and 3 weeks since we talked on the phone.
Do you think that’s good?
Should I make it longer/shorter?SURE!
I will reply with space and time thingYea that actually does sound rude. that wasn’t my intention thou, but yea
And thanks Vanessa! you are really helping 😀
No I didn’t send anything yet. She called today again, I didn’t answer. Then she texted saying that she’s really sorry and she admitted she was selfish.
What do you think I should say?
And what’s wrong with saying that “call me only in emergencies?”Exactly I was thinking of a similar thing:
“Hey.. I think I need space and time. Only call me if it’s an emergency or something urgent”I wanna get this relationship balance thing going on by leaving her for a little, at the same time I wanna show her that I still care for her and I’m-still-there-if-you-need-help type of thing
Good?
She called me again later tonight.. about 5 hours later.. I didn’t answer either..
If she keeps calling in the next few days, should I answer? or send a txt? or do nothing?
I wanna make her miss me for a little bit, prove to her that I’m not NEEDING her, and get the relationship balanced again.
what do you think?OMG! i’m not gonna get too excited.. I didn’t answer.. and she’s 23, I’m 23 as well.. few weeks older
Thanks for the reply.
That’s the thing I couldn’t figure out, although its probably just an excuse for her to leave me.
When we talked on the phone, I asked her why.. I asked her if I had anything to do with it? or if she was mad at me. But she would never answer. Then I asked her how have you been doing lately?
she said she was going to school and hanging with her friends!
So I told her “so you’re not going out/talking to me because you’re depressed. However you’re hanging out with your other friends. She started hesitating, and then she was like “I just don’t wanna talk about it!”. Then I told her “okay.. I’m not gonna keep asking.” Then she started talking non-sense like “I’m a bitch! are you happy now?!” or “I just wanna be friends with you!” or “all you wanna do is have sex with me!” or “you don’t care about me!”.. note: none of that is true, she even knows that. she was just angry and yelling, and I was speaking calmly trying to hold my emotions…
I’m just afraid that she’s going out with someone else, either because she wanna forget me, or because she did really find someone she liked better than me… At the same time I’m still confused, because I feel it deep inside that she still loves me but she’s trying to find a reason to hate me or leave me because, I think, she finds herself too attached to me.I’m not sure if that’s helping. I am as well confused. I’m just surprised how all of a sudden she left. Last night we were together, we were perfect. but idk, since that time she stopped talking, everything has changed.
Extra Info:
( I already read How to Get Your Ex Back Perm. but I thought it would be better if I provide my problem specifically)The reason why I think It’s not a good idea to not to answer if she calls, because we are supposedly not talking because she’s “depressed”. So do you think it’s a good idea to answer and keep it cool as if there’s nothing wrong? or should I still ignore and wait 30 days?
Keep in mind that she has been “depressed” for over 3 weeks now.. So it’s almost certain it’s breakup without explicitly stating it.What do you think?
Any suggestions?
