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Darren60
I wouldn’t be to worried about it , going on dates helps a lot. Sure I still think about my ex but honestly I couldn’t see myself getting back with him. Through the time I did no contact I thought I was miserable without him I really wasn’t. I was never happy with him. He was what I needed at the time. I definitely feel good about myself. Going on dates helps so that way you can see a comparison. I went on a date best decision ive ever made since me and my ex broke up. That’s when I realized that my ex was never the right one for me. Trust me you have to make yourself happy, it took me a long time to realize that . Just keep following the plan, but most importantly work on yourself. I know its killing you , trust me I was in your shoes two months ago. It gets better. I only realized about a month ago that Im much happier without my ex.Exactly, emotionally wise im fine. My heart still needs healing and im just not ready for another break up. And at this point in my life im happily single!
Joe
I am doing well shockingly, I actually have a date with a new guy tonight so we will see how it goes.as for you if you felt a connection with one of the girls I would keep going for her honestly.
Goodluck to you.
Sucker,
I seriously hope youre right, I just feel like he isn’t. Even with this girl. I just know he wouldve asked her out already and he hasnt. Im so miserable its ridiculous.And I feel like im the only one thats hurting, I feel like hes happy and doesnt miss me.
A.z.
you’re right, he probably did want me to react that way. I feel stupid for reacting quickly instead of thinking it through.Joe
your story is definitely similar to mine. Our personalities were very different, ive always heard opposites attract. Like your relationship we were only lovers we were best friends , told each other everything. Now when my ex and I broke we also had a huge argument and he ended the conversationen with saying he had feelings for a girl who is 17 and a senior in high school, were both 20 and juniors in college, but we have been broken up for 5 weeks and hes still single. And so am I. I think you definitely need to do nc , work on yourself, do everything you can to make yourself happy. If you have faebook, dont like things that have anything to do with a relationship, you want her to think its not bothering you. Take pictures with your friends put it on facebook let her know that you are acting like youre happy without her , itl drive her crazy. Sign up for kevins emails they help trust me. This website is the only reason why im staying calm. I cant tell my friends or family anything about mine because they just say stop thinking about him. Easier said than done. But trust me first two weeks are the hardest as it goes on you may realize that youre happier without or that you need her more than ever. Right now im wishy washy I go back and fourth some days I miss him more than others. Were all here for you if you need people to talk come here, will help.Joe
yah I know what you mean. This is our first break up, though we fought all the tim. We were both stressed out with school and stuff. We are both are hard headed. Now that we are broken we find things thatll push each other over the edge. Were bad about trying one up each other also and were both competitive.With your situation , I dont know your story but It sounds like she is still mad and will do anything to make you mad.
