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True. Thanks Ly88. Sometimes someone elses point of view helps alot.im really working on myself to be a better man. She will see the changes. Or even hear about them.
It could be. see love is something u gotta be feeding constantly remind it. Feel it. Transmit it. What ever is going on at home is like oh well shes not here most of the time anyway. Hopefully he sees ur a good girl and gives his all to u. U should pray for him. Have faith. Nevet doubt or loose it. Believe me. Prayer changes things And makes miracles. Things will go in your favor.
Ask & you shall receive.I reconciled. A month later after my ex left me. I was in 13 days of NC and she texted to meet up. We did. Spoke told me she went out with someone who treated her nice and was a good guy. It hurt me so bad. But she said she didn’t feel the same as when she was with me. After 3 hours of talking we got back together. It only lasted 3 days tho. she picked me up one day and said i cant do this im settling with you. And just like that she left again. Now im still in pain and without her and i feel more hopeless than before 🙁
Just do NC its the best u can do for yourself. Its really hard im on day 10 n i think im going crazy but u gotta do it
I knoW she didnt. But how do i know she didnt go back? 🙁 this kills me according to her he was a nice guy n treated her good. Ughhhhhhhhhh
Thats what sucks no one to give a little feed back on their end. I domt have it either so its hard to see where we actually stand
U should have someone get a hold of him n see hows he doing n stuff. Maybe he opens up
I know. What is killing me is that she met a guy and went out with him a week after we broke up so im scared she will go back to him
I don’t know. U dont have a close friend hes comfortable with and talking about it??? Ive never been in a situation about moving in to see how it goes
Good job at least ur doing something good. Hopefully u hear something from him before u make a move.
I know how u feel i feel just like u i think im going crazy already too much thinking and nothing from their part 🙁
Pinappleblue,
Do you know if their is someone else? Because sometimes when their is they wont know why their leaving. When in reality they do. They just dont want to say anything about it. Hope its not the case. But what you need to do is work on yourself. if he didnt feel attracted to you then hit the gym or something. Something he will notice. Change hair style do your nails. Change how you look. Thats the major one. Trust me he will see that. Alot of times we get blinded on what is in front of us that we forget we have something good. I csn tell u that because i left my ex for someone else. For 4 months until i got caught i realized the big mistaake i was doing. She forgave me but till this day she still holds it against me. Thats why she doesn’t want to get back with me. Even though it was 2 yrs ago. So give him time he’ll eventually snap out of it. Lets just hope its faSt. because it really sucks being like that. I put someone there and now im the one in it.
Thats true. I just get really desperate and think the worst. Even to believe that she probably has someone else. I dont know i dont really want to fpcus on that. I lack patience and maybe thats where i am failing at. She just thinks she misses me too much that it got the best of her that’s why she wanted to come back.
Hi pinnappleblue,
I think you are right. It wasn’t much. But she seemed so convinced about getting together. Her friend told het she was stupid for doing so. Also, i cheated on her 2 yrs ago. She forgave me but according to her she cant get over it and believes shes just settling with me. She loves me. she told me and i felt it like when we were good. But her friends are getting stuff in her head. Do you think ill be able to pull it off?
