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  • in reply to: Didn't wish my Ex a hbd #44964
    johnboy439
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    Thanks newme15 thankyou im taking my time to improve myself and i will but i think in your situation i think he does have feelings for you too if he didnt he wouldnt have said anything trust me im a bloke 😉

    in reply to: Didn't wish my Ex a hbd #44961
    johnboy439
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    No im not going to and not long but we were on off for a month till a new guy came into the picture now shes been seeing him for a month a few friends think its a rebound so I have ignored her completely blocked her on everything but theres been signs she has
    Feelings for me time will tell

    in reply to: Didn't wish my Ex a hbd #44931
    johnboy439
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    Im in a similar situation or could be my ex has her bday this weekend she left me but im wondering what she might do or say

    in reply to: advisement needed #38144
    johnboy439
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    And she keeps calling what do i do ?

    in reply to: is it ever really over? #38123
    johnboy439
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    Shes going through things called drift and switch shell drift to you or away from you then when she gets close she switchs thats where you need to be observant of her plant whats called a bliss bomb very effective it goes like ‘look we’re close and i want it to stay that way i want you to know im here for you anytime we always manage to get things sorted together’with this its always there and when she has a problem you remind her by saying remember when i said look we’re close etc… This will throw instantly into bliss an explosion of emotion and remember a rebound is like a cigarette the quicker the fire burns the quicker its finished so that rebound wont last forever but make a false friendship based on trust understanding and honesty this will work in your favour when the time is right

    in reply to: what to do #38119
    johnboy439
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    Yeah sure but its been 2 days nc and shes already texting me if i dont reply what will happen do you think ?

    in reply to: what to do #38107
    johnboy439
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    You think i have a chance at this ? I mean i do want her back and i willing to make the changes cos it will benefit me as a person but i do want her

    in reply to: is caring loving? #37798
    johnboy439
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    I consider care to be a form of love and even though you said that her feelings for you will still be there shes gone onto some one else to still feel an emotional connection but with rebounds they never last and even the fact that she was mad is a form of love because if she had no feelings for you then shed ignore it and wouldnt care but if she was openly mad at you for it then it goes back to care and hence forth love and feelings she may feel that shes messed up and venting her frustration of not getting the connection she desired with this person that she once had with you yano what i mean mate ?

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