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well, she had a go at me again because i didn’t answer according her rules; to late to short answer…
So i made the decision it was enough. when everything you do leads to disscusion , it’s time to go.That is black and white.. It’s no all toxic. With some things she really helps.
And at the moment i don’t have many people in my life so that makes it harder to cut the stringYes, it’s the same woman and yes she is toxic and that makes it addictive to me.
Trying to cut lose. Goes slow.I think you are right, except, she is the one that dumped me.
There is that little part of me that want her back, i know, nostalgy, but i think I’m ready to move on
Tell me how i can say goodbye? I got already two messages today. I’m awake four hours.
I find blocking a really mean thing. Never done that.
Just not answer?She’s 46 and I’m 37. We are about four hours flight apart.
I told her I could come and she agreed.
She decided herself to stay with me in the hotel. After an hour she Already started kissing me. Yes we had sex, a few times. We touch each other and it happens.In my heart i still wanna be with her.
But my brain says it’s not a good idea.I don’t know how I can’t respond, it’s not in me. It’s impolite and makes me feel bad.
So yesterday i told her I don’t wanna be in her life anymore. That it is just not good for both of us.
I said goodbye, deleted her from facebook and instagram.
Within 24 hours she texted me. how are you, don’t wanna bug you.
So i just replied, I’m fine and closed app.
Got a douzen messages after that i’m rude, why i didn’t ask how she was.
It’s driving me crazy.Ok, we met each other last week for a couple of days. We spend all the time together, had lots of fun, laughs, cuddles, kisses even sex. When we said goodbye she was crying.
The day after she texted me a lot, that she misses me, wanna be with me.
the next day she totaly changed again and went to cold. She contacts me but doesn’t feel like she wants to.
I guessed she wanted space to think so i reponded her but not to much.
Yesterday she texted me and i said to her, I’m on a terrace and i will call her later. So she starts asking with who, where…
I give her some of the names of the people i’m with and i get a whole, why you do mysterious? why you act like a child. I quickly changed subject because i answered her and didn’t feel like going on about it.Any idea what she wants???
If it was a toxic relationship and if she was nasty towards you then yes indefinite NC is the best thing for you. You should be with someone who treats you like you deserve not someone keeps you dangling on her hook.
So enjoy some time for now, pick yourself and keep on keeping on.
YES!! I think we keep dangling to long in memories. I’m in the same situation. I know it’s btter to move on but it’s that little hope that messes with the head.
I’ve tried that. The next day she was on the phone. I have to tell you something. It’s important.
Why you do that, why you kill everything..
So i explained that because it’s not good how we communicate at the moment i wanted that.
Made the mistake to ask some polite questions afterwards about her. How she was ….
So after that we didn’t speak for about a day and then she started messaging again.Even up till now. she comes with things she has to show me or things she has to ask.
Maybe she is just using me when she needs it. can be.
I have no idea anymore.
