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  • in reply to: ex contacts me #3558
    jes
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    HI kevin / dara ,,

    please help me asap

    in reply to: ex contacts me #3546
    jes
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    Hi Dara !!!!

    Please help me out!! Now hes saying that he had come to me as a friend to share his feelings! He said he just wantd to know if ill come back to him if he wantd me.
    It seems He loves me but does not want to tag the relationship. The other girl also asked for a chance and she is ready if in this process he leaves and comes to me.pleasree help me out.
    I told him if he had come to me as a friend he should continue with this girl only.
    Pleaseeeeee help me outtttt!! Asap. Since he is coming today to see mg pup. Please hlp me out!!

    in reply to: ex contacts me #3422
    jes
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    Hi kevin dara !

    I did accept his request aftet 3 days !! He called me the next morning saying that he wanted to meet me . i had asked him to come during my lunch break . but he said that he wants to talk to me propperly witout any rush.
    He camr home i acted cool. Later he said that he still loves me and this one month made hom realised it.
    He said thay he doea not love this girl. Me nagging him so much after the breakup led him to start dating her. Now he says that he cant lie to her anymore. He wants yo break up . je said that he did not give any hopes to this girl. He had made things clear that he will not be able yo give his 100% to her. He kept taking my name in front of her .
    He had also told thos girl that hes coming to meet me and that she leaves him alone.
    He yold me that all the texting , calling and the mesaages that he sent me was trying to get in touvh with me. He could never forget me. He said that he still loves me and would want to come back.
    He asked me if he comes back to me if i will take him. I said yes. Did i do something wrong? I could see that he was so happy!!!! I could really sense that he still loves me.
    I told him clearly that if he wants me i wouldnt want any chapter of that girl anymore.
    He said that he broke with her.but it will take time to settle thinga properly.
    But yestetday i called him . he is like i want to be in a relationship but not the way like we were before . He wants everything new. Hes like its better that we know each other better!! He just wants peace of mind and wants to be lefy alone when he wants to ! Why is he setting all these rules .? Please do let me know what i need to do .? How should i react to him when he says that dont ask me for a time frame for breaking up with her completelt!

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2610
    jes
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    Hi Dara !!!

    In case if he contacts what would i do?

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2609
    jes
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    Hi Dara!!!

    Will surely do that!! Ty so much !!! I appreciate your help!!! Yours and kevins mail were only my support!! Ty so much . will keep u updated !!

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2599
    jes
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    Hi Dara!!

    If u rememebered he had unfriended me in fb !!! Today morning when i woke up i saw this request from him !! Just want to know should i accept it?

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2435
    jes
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    Hi !!! Please help me out !

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2252
    jes
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    Hi dara !!

    I am really confused. He messaged me saying that i am the best thing that ever happened to him and i made him a better person amd he will always be there for me !
    he has not broken up with his present gf i guess. The girls ex has a new gf and guess has moved on . she had contacted him saying that she is happy for both and also wished him on his bday ! She also informed him before unfriending him on fb! Isnt it weird?

    I had already asked him not to contact me before too but still he did. Should i asl him not to contact me ? Or just continue the nc? What is this false friend ? Can u please explain ? Thank you in advance 🙂

    in reply to: ex contacts me #2085
    jes
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    Hi dara !!!
    He called today to ask about my well being.he cracked up jokes that was knoqn only to us !!! But i acted cool. He asked how my work was. Ireplied everything was fine. I have no clue why is he doing all this . it was his decision to move on and then he got a new gf too. Please do let me know if i need to start the nc rule all over ??

    in reply to: ex contacts me #1907
    jes
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    Hi kevin dara,

    I guess i meesse up !!! I was properly following the no contact rule!! He texted me saying that i had been talking to his present gf ex and havr been telling some personal stuff about us . i told him that i did not !! Please do let me know what needs to be done

    in reply to: ex contacts me #1595
    jes
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    Thank you !! Will continue the same

    in reply to: ex contacts me #1543
    jes
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    Hi ! Kevin/ dara!

    He is no longer in whats app! I guess he changed his number too!! Havent called him yet! He had messaged me two days back asking me to ask one of my cousin to pay the internet bill!! I just replied .k! Please do let me know what will i do.?? Have i done something wrong???

    in reply to: ex contacts me #932
    jes
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    Hi !!! His bdayb is coming up in a day. Should i wish him ? I have alreafy started the nc and its a werk now. Ease suggest asap

    in reply to: ex contacts me #798
    jes
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    HI!!!

    his bday is approaching . its just after 2 days. was wondering if i should wish him ?

    in reply to: ex contacts me #495
    jes
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    I hipe i havent done anythung wrong to screw up of wat was left.
    He had called me yesterday only asking about my wrll being. And then acc. To you i asked him not to call me again since i needed space and time. He did not reply to the text. But he has unfriended me on fb ! Is it normal thing that people do post break up ?

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