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That’s fine jes! Don’t torture yourself on this! Maybe he missed you and make up with a pretext to see if you reply to him! The main purpose of NC is that you become stronger and ever! You did not do anything deadly! Just imagine that those who have no idea about NC do begging and mess everything up!
Hi dara !!!
He called today to ask about my well being.he cracked up jokes that was knoqn only to us !!! But i acted cool. He asked how my work was. Ireplied everything was fine. I have no clue why is he doing all this . it was his decision to move on and then he got a new gf too. Please do let me know if i need to start the nc rule all over ??So he texteed you around 26th day! No, you should not restart NC unless you feel he is completely ignoring you or stringing you around! Well, did he breakup with this rebound? If not, continue NC for 2 more weeks! Otherwise get in touch with him and try to false-friend him!
Hi dara !!
I am really confused. He messaged me saying that i am the best thing that ever happened to him and i made him a better person amd he will always be there for me !
he has not broken up with his present gf i guess. The girls ex has a new gf and guess has moved on . she had contacted him saying that she is happy for both and also wished him on his bday ! She also informed him before unfriending him on fb! Isnt it weird?I had already asked him not to contact me before too but still he did. Should i asl him not to contact me ? Or just continue the nc? What is this false friend ? Can u please explain ? Thank you in advance 🙂
Okay! You have to first of all sort out if your ex is dating this new girl or not. If yes, you should elongate NC. If he insist on calling you, tell him that you need more time to deal this drama. Be rough to him.
Try not to figure out those many info about what you ex is doing. it really hurts. Simply focus on your own life. I believe he has already started fearing losing you forever. Let it get intensified. I hope that he did not try to string you around by saying those words. Anyway, You are the most important person here, so care about yourself!
Hi Dara!!
If u rememebered he had unfriended me in fb !!! Today morning when i woke up i saw this request from him !! Just want to know should i accept it?
Well, accept it with a delay of 2-3 days! Lets be a bit rough on him! 😀 Your NC is almost over jes! Now you can act like someone who is doing efforts in getting him back! Make him take initiative but don’t assure him of anything!!
Hi Dara!!!
Will surely do that!! Ty so much !!! I appreciate your help!!! Yours and kevins mail were only my support!! Ty so much . will keep u updated !!
Hi kevin dara !
I did accept his request aftet 3 days !! He called me the next morning saying that he wanted to meet me . i had asked him to come during my lunch break . but he said that he wants to talk to me propperly witout any rush.
He camr home i acted cool. Later he said that he still loves me and this one month made hom realised it.
He said thay he doea not love this girl. Me nagging him so much after the breakup led him to start dating her. Now he says that he cant lie to her anymore. He wants yo break up . je said that he did not give any hopes to this girl. He had made things clear that he will not be able yo give his 100% to her. He kept taking my name in front of her .
He had also told thos girl that hes coming to meet me and that she leaves him alone.
He yold me that all the texting , calling and the mesaages that he sent me was trying to get in touvh with me. He could never forget me. He said that he still loves me and would want to come back.
He asked me if he comes back to me if i will take him. I said yes. Did i do something wrong? I could see that he was so happy!!!! I could really sense that he still loves me.
I told him clearly that if he wants me i wouldnt want any chapter of that girl anymore.
He said that he broke with her.but it will take time to settle thinga properly.
But yestetday i called him . he is like i want to be in a relationship but not the way like we were before . He wants everything new. Hes like its better that we know each other better!! He just wants peace of mind and wants to be lefy alone when he wants to ! Why is he setting all these rules .? Please do let me know what i need to do .? How should i react to him when he says that dont ask me for a time frame for breaking up with her completelt!Hi Dara !!!!
Please help me out!! Now hes saying that he had come to me as a friend to share his feelings! He said he just wantd to know if ill come back to him if he wantd me.
It seems He loves me but does not want to tag the relationship. The other girl also asked for a chance and she is ready if in this process he leaves and comes to me.pleasree help me out.
I told him if he had come to me as a friend he should continue with this girl only.
Pleaseeeeee help me outtttt!! Asap. Since he is coming today to see mg pup. Please hlp me out!!
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