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  • in reply to: Why The Cold Shoulder? #10732
    James J. J.
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    I understand and agree with you. In fact, in the past two weeks my situation has gotten a lot better. C has started to act a bit nicer to me, and I’ve started to see someone else. However, another problem has arisen: as C becomes more attached to A, she has become more and more open to public displays of affection (PDA) during certain clubs and after-school activities, namely Drama Club. We practice 3 days a week for two hours per practice. At first it wasn’t so hard seeing her and him together, but now she has started kissing her all the time. And the most puzzling part is, she loves it. The most she ever let me do was hold her hand. Anyway, a great deal of my friends who are also in Drama Club hang around her in a big crowd while they goof off and crack jokes.
    I suppose what I’m asking is: What should I do, join her “group,” or go find another friend to sit with? How do I deal with her PDA, while also remaining calm and collected? Remember, no clichés.

    in reply to: Why Is She Being Distant? #5047
    James J. J.
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    Hi. First off, I want to thank you for taking the time to look over my situation and providing some very helpful advice. I still have one more question, though. What do you think would happen if I sent her a hand-written letter, telling her that I’ve accepted the breakup, and that I would like to still be good friends? Would this do more harm than good? Would this just confuse her? I’m just afraid she might misread my kindness as trying to get back together.

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