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Okay so we talked last night. We shouldn’t have but I had to text him
He started out really cold but he started to soften up
When is said I was miserable without him ( I know I broke the rules)
He said I’m sorry it has to be this way hun you know I hate seeing you like this but it isn’t my fault
And he offered to be friends because he still wants me in his life
So no contact starts now for sure but at least friends is a start.i was over exhausted and he lives 45 minutes away so I didn’t feel comfortable driving home, and he wouldn’t let me in.
I don’t know why but I still trust him – I don’t think he would do that to me again.
However, I see how he would have a hard time trusting me.
We have talked tonight and he said we can be friends and nothing more, which is a start but I don’t know. I feel like he probably needs some time.
I wish I could take it back and start fresh but it isn’t that easy.
I know our relationship can be toxic, but it was good. He treats me like a queen when he isn’t hurting.I have now restricted my facebook so he cant’ see it just like he did to me – and he deleted me off facebook.
What do I do ? Was that a bad idea ?I hear you, it is so tough to go to strangers
I hate playing games but gotta do what you gotta do if you believe you were meant to be.
Give it a solid 2 weeks before you text him again.
You’re right, at least you’re neutral – there is hope.
Stay strong girl!I think you should just let it die for today.
in about a week or so, text him about something random
“Hey, i saw this thing today and it reminded me of you”
“Know what I was thinking about today? That one time where we …. that was a lot of fun”
If he doesn’t answer don’t panic – try again in another week
When you say he replied after two months of no talking, do you mean you did two months NC or he refused to answer your texts?ugh no contact is so hard !! I’m scared he’s gonna move on super quick… Gotta stay strong tho
