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I’m sorry to hear that man, your story is outstandingly terrible. I have a similar story with my mom too actually except it wasn’t drugs. I have the same issues with women. I don’t open up too often but when I do, this happens.
At the very least we’re both stuck in the same boat and I’m not sure anyone can give any advice as to what to do. I checked out the blog and it said just work on yourself, do positive things.. change my life around. I’m working on that but every day that goes by it feels as though she just continues to hate, despise, and loathe me even more.
So today I reset my NC down to Day 1 cause she pulled off some dramatic shit to get my attention. I had to respond and add her back cause there would be no point in NC if I can’t talk to her after 30+ days.
Thanks for replying, it makes me feel better than I have someone here who knows my struggles and thats all I ask for. I acknowledged your post too so I have you in my mind as we go through this together.
I need some serious help. Im torn between this. I added her back on an Instant Messenger cause thats where we always talk. We talked for a bit and cleared up a lot of issues that she had. She was really negative but I had a positive attitude. I ignored the low blows while fixing the issues. So now I can go through no contact without her issues clouding the next 30 days. She kept me on the IM but blocked me everywhere else. She’s posting a lot of things on her Facebook mutual friends have told me its an obscene amount of passive-aggressive quotes against me. Did I make the right choice – I think I needed to break NC (was only on day 2) just to re-add and reconnect with her.
