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Not necessarily. When you do NC. When he unblocks you, it means he wants to check up on what you are doing.
Focus on yourself and your daughter from now on. No need to wish him a happy birthday again.
You’ve been his rock these past twp years. I want you to withdraw that attention from him. He will be angry at first but he’ll start missing you and yearning for you. NC is the best right now. Follow it strictly. You will get him back
RULE: Never express emotion to your ex when he/she drunk dials you. Never! Always remember this.
I feel for you honestly. The best thing ypu can do is NC. We are here for you and we can help you get throught it. Ypu will feel much better afterwards.
There is a thread in NC section where your can write you can count the days and state your difficulties. We will help you.
It took me a long time but ive read everything.
Your text was ok dont worry about it much.
For your own sake start no contact NOW.
The guy is taking out his frustrations out on you and its immature and not fair to you. You seem like a nice person:).
So do no contact. It will help you a lot.
Make up an excuse like school and stuff like that and dont give a definite time frame.
Tell her you did love her. Deflect blame for the break up away from you by showing that yoi did love her.
Next talk about your special moments, those where you felt you were truly in love. Talk about how her goals for her future inspire you everyday and you care about them.
Then you can conclude.
Dont tell her you are going to do NC.
No contact will make her think about you more and give her and you time tothibk things over.
Infact write a letter inatead of a cryptic message. Write what you feel but dont tell her you are going to do no contact.
Try sending a final cryptic message. Showing that you still care for her. Then do NC. Its not the last time you’ll ever talk to her again. Rather you are going to make yourself better then contact her when the perod is over.
About her insecurities i dont think you can do much about it if she decides to sgare them. If they are together then she will.
Its a good sign because she’s trying to find you in this guy. Thats why she ends up coming to you for emotional support something which is nonexistent in her current relationship.
Starve her off it and i dont think that relationship will last. How do you starve her off it? Do NC. Put ypurself and your happiness first not hers.
