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Rogerio,

Welcome Back brotha! Thank you for sharing your story and providing all the details.
I am very happy you are in a better place now. Hopefully you have quite smoking by now haha.
Can you talk more about the good and bad that has been happening now that you have been back together with your gf?
And do you feel like you are in a happier place now?

Thank you in advance,
A Friend in Need

Your post has some really interesting points. I think NC def does help but the length depends on the relationship and how it ended. Its very important to take into consideration all that that factors that lead up to your break up and then post break up. As far as reaching out to her i find it hard to try to “build” up conversations with that other person when you should just be fully honest and get to the point and set a date as soon as possible if she says she is interested in being friends.