Thanks. She broke up with me saying she has focussed too much on me instead of taking care of her own life. But I think there is another part to it as well, and that is that I was handling the situation pretty bad in the end. God prevent say goes back to the guy, but I think it’s highly unlikely in this case since the man is really doing his best to be a jerk. This is actually what I have done wrong, taking her Obvious grieve as a sign she wanted him back, where she’s just waking up to what the guy has done. So yeah, I got way to nervous about the whole thing.
But thanks, if any more thoughts / experiences, I’d be happy to hear them. Need some time, and advice maybe, to decide if it is wise to want to get back together.