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@aylink – She is very much worth my time, and I want to do my best to get her back. Her last email to me just asked for space. I told her in my previous email that if she wanted me to stop contacting her for good, she just had to tell me, but she never did that….that is hard to ignore! She just said she wanted space and that being friends “right now” would not be ideal.

@catwomann – So are you saying that even though i’m going to give her the space and time she is asking for, she will need to be the person to contact me? This girl is extremely rational and straightforward. I don’t want to just do NC for a month coz I did that once already and she asked for more space. 3 months is the only logical amount I can come up with.

For what it’s worth, i’m sorta seeing another girl….but my heart (at the moment) is still firmly focused on the Ex.

I dated her for about 1 year. And the one thing I got from her is when she makes up her mind, she will tell you exactly what it is. If she means to never see me again or thinks it’s impossible to do something, she will say it.

SO, for her to say those words I mentioned in my first post (ie. not saying “no” or or telling me to “stop”) tells me a lot. BUT! i’m SO WORRIED that i’m in denial….that i’m trying to see something that is not really there.

What do you guys think?

The whole OTHER side to this breakup – and it’s the actual reason she broke up with me – has to do with religion.

She is a devout Christian…and i’ve only been going to Church regularly for about 5 months. She knows that it will take some time for me to develop religiously and spiritually. I’d like to think she wants this space partly to allow this personal development to happen in my life.

She left me because I wasn’t religious…..but she knows now that i’m very focused on the Church. Could this space she wants be more for me to develop? or more for her?

What do you guys think?

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