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Ok thankyou so much for your reply means a lot and no i havnt bombared her with messages
Additionally i figured out why she has broken it off she can only think about the bad stuff thats happened and doesnt see any good left because we been together a long time, i obviously need to let her heal so she can remember all the good stuff but how do i know when she has healed and when i can try reach out again?
I proposed about 2 and half weeks before the end, she was happy but it was all temporary, i gave her a ring but it was a temporary ring , i then bought her a proper ring a day later after she said yes which i have since cancelled, she still has the first ring which was £150 the second was £1000 which ive gotten back
Once or twice a week most weeks, she text me yesterday that said “not doing my best today, how sre you” i waited 2 hours to reply and said “im better thanks” she replied with “good”, i later was worried about her so i text her saying “do you need to talk?” She said “no im fine no prob” so i said “hope your okay” she then rang me, i was light hearted on the phone told her this was the right decision for both of us and told her that i dont want her back right now but given time to repair i would like to see her again and take things slow, i also stated clearly that i cant wait forever and if she never sees us being together again she needs to let me know so i can move on with my life, i said if i dont hear off you in the next few weeks ill take it as you dont” she then ended up crying because i also said im thinking about moving to australia with my mate because theres nothing keeping me here anymore she then said im sorry i shouldnt have rung you , the convo ended so i text her saying all i ask is just think about what i said about when the time is right to start a fresh and take things slow, i rung her this morning to check if she was okay i litterally said are you okay, she said yes, i said i do care about you you know, then we said bye. She then text me at lunch saying “thanks for checking up on me x” i havnt replied as i said what i said about needing to know where i stand. Ive started no contact again, do i continue with it until she reaches out now? Do i ignore her if she reaches out? She had also said on the phone that it seems i needed it more than her as ive picked myself up massively over the last week i feel a lot better.
Thankyou for the advice please let me know what i should do about reaching out again? Do i wait? Do i ignore? How long do i wait now?
